I am a psychological counselor, engaged in consulting work 10 years. Let me talk about my views on this issue.
To tell the truth, it used to be the same. I was easy to cry when I was wronged and my fatigue was low. But since the consultation, this problem feels much better. Sometimes when consulting, some visitors can't help crying, which has little or no influence on themselves.
When I was consulting a college student, the student cried. I asked him, why are you sleepy? He said, I have been to psychological teachers in schools and other schools, and I feel that they are all endorsing. You can get to the point. I can't tell you what it tastes like.
As a consultant, if you understand the formation mechanism of psychological problems, you can get down to business. This is not face reading or fortune telling, but science, which is of great help to visitors. Even if they cry, you will be proud.
So I don't think it will have an impact, provided that the problem can be solved.
Being a psychological counselor is a very dangerous profession, and it is easy to be introduced by the wrong knowledge of the other party. Solving problems for others with your own strength will consume your own energy, while solving problems with knowledge comes down to knowledge not being consumed.
First of all, we should also look at what kind of "susceptible constitution" the so-called "low tearing point" is.
For example, it is easier to "shed tears" because of sympathy for others, which shows from one side that * * * has better emotional ability, is easier to understand visitors, and is easier to produce * * * sounds with them. From this perspective, if you are professionally trained and can separate the emotions of visitors while maintaining empathy, you can try to be a consultant.
If the "low tear point" is caused by a lot of grievances and pains in your heart, then the first thing you need to deal with may be this part of your own trauma. Otherwise, even if you learn the skills of consultants, there may be over-interpretation and projection that is not conducive to visitors.
Of course, on a case-by-case basis, no matter whether your "low tear point" is the above situation or a mixed situation, you can study psychology and see if you really like this job in the process of learning.
I hope it helps. Thank you for your question.
First of all, don't worry so much, you'll be defeated by yourself before you study. Learning psychology is to learn to deal with your emotions first and help yourself first. By learning how to change your cognitive ability and deal with emotions, you can help others only when you have the ability and energy. I think studying psychology is a very good thing, but you should have patience and confidence and keep learning with the teacher courses you choose. Psychological counselors will also have emotions and will encounter their confused problems.
Psychological counselor is a demanding profession.
In our industry, there is a saying that "not everyone can be a psychological counselor".
So I feel a little ridiculous after reading other people's answers.
First of all, the consultant must be a highly mature person.
The so-called high maturity of personality level,
A popular understanding is that this question is relatively neutral.
Not paranoid, have their own judgment, not easy to follow the crowd, not swaying with the wind,
That is to say, the psychological age matches the social age, which does not mean that although he is an adult, his temper and temperament are like a child.
Secondly, we should have certain characteristics.
Such as observation ability,
It is a strong ability to capture a person's appearance, behavior, speech, voice and other overall information.
This is to quickly and accurately analyze the people who ask you for help.
This ability is very important.
Such as language ability.
The language expression in consultation is different from that in usual chat.
Require relative accuracy, euphemism, etc. Euphemism is accuracy and accuracy is euphemism.
Such as listening ability.
In psychological counseling, does the counselor have such ability or even exceed the ability of language expression?
Look, not just listening,
In listening, quickly summarize, summarize, screen and judge, and make appropriate clarification and feedback in the process.
Such as * * * emotional ability.
Sympathize with the pain of others,
You don't need empathy, you just need to understand.
Visitors are usually very sensitive in this respect, and they can quickly catch whether the consultant has such ability.
Back to your question, your "low tears" may easily involve other people's emotions.
This is not emotional ability.
The solution is to solve some personal problems.
Psychological counselor is a profession that needs constant growth, and it is far from enough to have the above abilities.
You must go through years of professional study,
I can't be a consultant without ten or eight years.
Let's just say so much.
People with low tears are generally people with strong emotional ability. Sensitive, gentle and delicate. I care more about other people's feelings, and I can feel the same. I think this is a precious gift from God.
People live in the world, and everyone will experience all kinds of things. Many times it is inevitable and helpless. Everyone will have different psychological problems. Since it is a problem, it means it can be solved. It needs a caring and empathetic heart to listen to it and touch it.
So I think people with "low tears" are more suitable to be psychological counselors. Helping others is also a kind of value.
Thank you for your invitation. I have low tears and want to be a consultant. I'm a little worried. This is a good question. It will have an impact.
Everything has advantages and disadvantages. Let's talk about its positive value first. The low tear point shows that you are a very kind person, compassionate, observant and sensitive.
When consulting, it is a strong ability to sensitively capture the emotional changes of visitors, which is what we call * * * ability.
At the same time, low tears will also affect counseling. If a visitor comes to the consulting room and tells you a sad story, he will cry while talking. If you cry while listening, it will affect the effect of counseling.
Does that mean you can't be a consultant with low tears? That's not true. Aware of your low tears, you can change yourself by doing personal growth experience, that is, let yourself be a visitor and consult a psychological counselor first.
Good luck!
I think you are very suitable to be a counselor. People with low tears are generally kind-hearted and empathetic. Fair and just, can put yourself in others' shoes. See the heart of the problem. Be able to correctly handle the problems encountered by yourself or others in love or affection.
Psychological counselor, one of the 360 lines, needs to run in study and practice, and needs to constantly invest in learning and growth, not once and for all. But also a very lonely profession, not only the work content is private, but also the lack of support from peers in the industry. You can't share your porridge with others if they know more. Customers will not be satisfied. It has confidentiality and privacy.
Psychological counselor is not only a knowledgeable profession, but also a word-of-mouth industry. No one likes to communicate and consult with people who have no knowledge but only talk empty words. Therefore, an excellent psychological counselor should never be poor in his inner world. How vast the spiritual world of psychological counselors is. How far can you lead tourists? How can we lead visitors to places where consultants have not yet arrived?
Furthermore, psychological counselors can't be too bad in emotional experience. There is a saying: knowing so much, it is still not good. Why? Because reason is too developed. Feelings are too lacking. They know everything. Everything can be analyzed logically, but you can't feel that they are alive and emotional. We listen attentively, and then analyze and use our technical terms. Call * * * emotional heart to guide and communicate, which absolutely requires consultants to have full emotions and keen emotional analysis skills.
It is not easy to become a psychological counselor, and you will experience many difficulties and pains. Even doubt the industry and yourself. There is still a lack of understanding of the field of psychological counselors in society. So you also need to have a strong psychological quality.
People with low tear spots have relatively healthy psychological quality. A beneficial, sensitive psychological reaction. Be able to listen carefully to customers' questions and give people goodwill. Kind and approachable feeling. Can make customers trust.
With the development of your career, you will get more opportunities to study and exercise, and be brave and fearless. Guide tourists with positive thoughts and emotions. I believe you will become an excellent psychological counselor!
Tears are low, but I really want to be a psychological counselor. Will it have an impact?
When is the tear point low? I feel that you may be a sensitive, meticulous and emotional person, and such a person will have a more acute feeling for others.
In our life, there are indeed many people who will burst into tears when they see others suffering; Seeing the outstanding deeds of others will also move you to tears. Most of these people are kind and soft at heart and are very sensitive to people and things in life. Getting along with them makes people feel warm and stable. This feeling is the best therapy that a counselor can give when facing a visitor. Because in a safe and warm environment, tourists will relax their vigilance and expose themselves.
As for whether the low tear point has an impact on becoming a psychological counselor, I think it must have an impact. Because you are susceptible, you can resonate with visitors more quickly, so as to feel them better. You can unconsciously approach visitors, and visitors will unconsciously approach consultants in such fields, thus establishing a good relationship between consultants and laying the foundation for a good result of consultation. This is an advantage.
At the same time, there is also the possibility of negative effects. It is possible because it depends on how we look at it. If we don't know ourselves well, once we face the pain of visitors, it is easy to get too involved and lose neutrality, lose the status of consultants, and of course it will no longer be a consultation-visitor relationship. From this perspective, it will have a certain impact on the progress of psychological counseling. Of course, the general psychological counselor will have his own supervisor. As long as we are aware of it beforehand or afterwards or in the event, or make appropriate adjustments after the supervisor's explanation, then this influence is limited.
If when you become a consultant, you can know yourself well, understand yourself, or grow up with the help of your own experience, be keenly aware of your personal feelings, and adjust quickly, then low tears may have more positive effects on becoming a consultant.
This is just what you said about the low tear point. As for other qualities, they are available online, so I won't go into details here.
Consultation is not recommended.
People with low tears are weak and easily driven by other people's words and deeds.
You have to see a psychiatrist before receiving many psychological patients [I want to be quiet]