There are three main problems in your situation:
1. How to divide the property?
The main property, the house, was built at the expense of your parents. If your parents don't explicitly give you husband and wife, but only agree to let you live, that is your parents' property, and you husband and wife can't separate it.
Other property, such as the car bought by the man after marriage, the income of both parties and their respective deposits are the same property and need to be divided, unless there is an agreement between the two parties to own the property separately.
2. What if the other party disagrees with the divorce?
According to Chinese law, the breakdown of marriage is the standard for granting divorce. Evidence of marital breakdown can be collected, such as two years of separation due to emotional disharmony, and the man's domestic violence is serious. In the first divorce proceedings, if the other party strongly disagrees with the divorce, he can sue for divorce again after half a year. If the relationship between the two parties does not improve, the court will usually grant a divorce.
3. Who will raise the children?
According to the law, children aged 10 should consult custody. Your daughter is ten years old. If you want to fight for the custody of your daughter, I suggest you communicate with your daughter more and strive for her understanding and support. When you have two children, you usually decide to raise one child each, unless you can prove that the other side has serious conditions that are not conducive to the growth of the children.
The marriage and family affairs team of Ma Xiaohui, a lawyer of Beijing Mingtai Law Firm, tailor-made professional marriage solutions for you. They are experienced in real estate division and child support, especially in dealing with complicated issues such as share division, stock options, inheritance, family fortune inheritance, and foreign-related marriages. If you have marital problems, you can make an appointment with Ma Xiaohui for face-to-face consultation through Beijing Mingtai Law Firm.