Second, children don't accept it. On the surface, it's a privacy issue. In fact, it is children's resistance and distrust of their parents. The problem itself is not a child's problem, but a parent's own problem. Parents should reflect on themselves. For example, children don't like compulsory education, especially in adolescence, and it is easy to have a rebellious attitude towards this kind of education.
Third, the positioning of our relationship with our daughter is not only the parents of the children, but also the good friends. The daughter will take the initiative to tell her mother about her physical problems. Will take the initiative to talk to me about my study and my classmates' problems. So my daughter has no problem of not letting us into her room.
Parents come into the room at will and won't let you lock the door. This is that parents have violated their own boundaries. We say that the older the child is, the clearer the boundary between parents and children should be. After all, everyone should have their own privacy, and it is our duty to respect each other's privacy.
Facing the present situation, you should first understand whether parents have not grown up or are used to controlling others, especially their own children, because everyone is looking for a sense of control or stability in this social life. Your parents entered your room without your permission. It can be said that they want to ease their sense of control lost in other aspects of life through this hard control, because you are still young and they can control it at will.
Sixth, to change this situation, you need to communicate with them slowly. What you can do now is to make them feel that you are controllable, obedient and will not go against their wishes. First dispel their concerns, then slowly let them go, and finally achieve the results you want.