2. In the rebellious period of boys, parents must understand, tolerate and understand their children and guide them correctly.
3. When communicating, parents can start with family affairs, stabilize their children's emotions and then get down to business.
It is certainly irrational for parents to educate their children with emotions, which will lead to more resistance of children. Therefore, parents should not educate their children when they are impatient, irritable and not calm. After you calm down, you can communicate with your children.
5. Patiently listen to your child. If you are an impatient parent, the most direct reaction when facing a child who doesn't listen to discipline is usually swearing. When parents' minds have been focused on understanding their children's thoughts and trying to help them solve problems, they may find that their children's behaviors are actually excusable and release a lot of negative emotions.
6. Really put down your body. This is especially recommended. I hope parents can really put down their bodies and respect their children from the heart. Don't talk to their children in a commanding tone, treat them as adults. Don't always say "no" to children, but give them multiple-choice questions and let them make their own decisions.
7. Let children experience that if children can't always listen to adults, parents can also let their children "eat their own fruit" on the premise of ensuring safety and not having adverse consequences. Through their own practical experience, children will be able to deeply understand how correct and important their parents' teaching is.
8. Treat children sincerely: Some parents always like to use a tone of accusation or command when communicating with their children, which often makes children unacceptable. The communication between parents and children should be sincere and there is no distance. Parents can honestly explain their worries or emotions to their children and let them know that his behavior will make you sad, or make you worry and fear.