Jia Hao and Yan Yan are what our friends call model couples. From college to graduation and marriage, they are also very peaceful. Both of them are good-natured, and even if something big happens, they will not quarrel fiercely. However, when everyone envied their love, unexpected changes took place. At this time, outsiders intervened in their marriage. Originally, their life was too dull, and there was no initial freshness, which easily made people feel tired. This sudden change broke the original peace, and the turbulent peace made them breathless, and the distance between husband and wife became farther and farther.
They work in the same company, but not in the same department, but things between companies can't be hidden. Most people will talk about some interesting things after dinner. One day, Yan Yan, who went to the teahouse, overheard someone discussing the intimate relationship between her husband and Su Fang, and even someone saw them go out to check in. Yan Yan also noticed her husband's recent abnormal behavior, often coming home late, and his clothes always have a special perfume smell. Yan Yan felt that her sky was falling and waited absently until she got off work. Immediately after returning home, I showed my cards to my husband and filed for divorce. My husband is also very flustered. He really kept Yan Yan and will turn over a new leaf, but he can't resist Yan Yan's insistence.
Without Yan Yan's room, it looks so empty, without a trace of temperature. Every time I go home, I have no hot food to eat, and I have to face a lot of things such as washing clothes and doing housework. At this time, he reacted to Yan Yan's usual hard work, and endless regrets flooded his world. I didn't realize how childish my behavior was until I lost her. I had to let her down before she left. At this time, I want to save my feelings, even if I lose everything.
Time can change everything, including the initial oath. I was willing to work with her when I was poor, but my feelings for her changed after I made some achievements. Perhaps it is a certain point that you remember, and the temptations around you will emerge one after another, constantly impacting your firm heart and falling into temptation step by step.
After the divorce, I felt that the home with her was so warm that people unconsciously sank, so I tried my best to get close to her again, but after all, people have to pay for their actions, and there will be no regret medicine in the world. When she reacts that she doesn't belong to herself, she will feel extremely lost, feel that she has missed the whole world, and want to start over and go back to the past.
In fact, it can go to the point of divorce, which shows that there are irreparable problems in the relationship between your. The hearts of two people are no longer together, and no matter how hard they try, they can only maintain the superficial calm. I chose to end this marriage on impulse, thinking that I would be happier if I was free. But in fact, most divorced men will regret it, feel that their lives have become a mess without her, and begin to miss those peaceful happiness. As the saying goes, "you don't know how to cherish until you lose it." When you have it, you feel that everything is normal. When you really lost it, you realized how happy life was at that time.
Just like a friend around her, when she found out that her husband had another woman outside and was heartbroken, she told him a showdown and chose a divorce. In fact, her husband just lost his way for a while and couldn't resist the temptation outside. He still has deep feelings for her and is unwilling to give up this family. Because of her firmness, she had to sign a divorce agreement, but since then, she has cut off all contact with third parties and often appears beside my friends, saying that she would prove her sincerity with practical actions and please her in every way. As the saying goes, "the prodigal son never changes his money." After a period of examination, his friends no longer refused his practice, so he returned to his previous life and did not choose to remarry.
Many people's divorce is just a form. Although they have gone through the divorce formalities, they will continue to live together, without changing their lifestyle, just changing their identities. Such people may be out of consideration for their children's growth and don't want to leave a shadow on their childhood, so they will endure it. In fact, in essence, two people already belong to strangers, and at most they are special friends. They know each other, but they can't get back together
In fact, this lifestyle is not worth promoting. Now that you are divorced, you should have your own life. Staying in the past will only delay your time. You don't have to compromise for your children, it will only bring more sadness. If you still can't let go of each other, you can continue to live together and see if she can change for herself. If so, remarriage is also the best choice.
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Maybe he left his ex-wife and was homeless, and he had to rely on others! A rickety patient.
There are many happy marriages in this world, but there are not a few divorces. The reasons for divorce are varied and strange, nothing more than money, affection, desire and so on. Some divorces are voluntary, some are forced, and some are unwilling by both parties. This can happen to people who live together after divorce.
One of the spouses is unwilling to divorce. This situation may lead to cohabitation, but only if the other party is not particularly disgusted with him. If both sides have no feelings, it is impossible to live together, because you think I am uncomfortable and I think you will quarrel if you are not pleasing to the eye. How can you be together?
Secondly, there is another situation, that is, one party has not found a place to live here for the time being, which is really an excuse. It may be that the relationship has not broken down yet, and there is still a deep attachment to each other, waiting for an opportunity, hoping for a second time or so.
Third, the husband and wife have no intention of divorce, but because of certain pressure, they must divorce and live together at this time. Of course, there is great hope for such a husband and wife to reunite. Divorce and cohabitation are just a process, a transitional stage, and soon the family will be complete.
Divorce is particularly harmful to feelings. It doesn't matter if you have no children. If you have children, the harm to children is unimaginable to adults. Even if forced to divorce and get back together soon, the impact on children should not be underestimated, leaving a shadow in the hearts of both sides, which is not so easy to eliminate. No matter how good the knife wound medicine is, it will leave scars.
A man who chooses to live with his wife after divorce usually reflects the following psychology:
1 This person can't take care of himself. He needs to live in a family with a wife. For example, you can also eat rice, watch TV and even sleep in your wife's bed in the living room.
He and his wife dissolved their relationship legally, but they remained inseparable psychologically.
This man longs for freedom. I don't want to take responsibility in marriage, but I still want to have the warmth and care of a woman.
If the divorce is initiated by men, they just want to enjoy the freedom of Americans and don't want to bear the responsibility of China people.
Maybe for some reason, the two sides can't stand it, so they divorced, but after the divorce, they still have some nostalgia. It may be physical, taking care of children, etc.
When we are together, we always think about other people's aspects, so we separate. Sometimes I always think about the good things about others and really want to be together again. The original problem is still a problem, let's see if we can tolerate it.
Also, when we are together, all kinds of friction are not pleasing to the eye. I went out for a walk, only to find that Yingying Yanyan I saw before can take part in accidental amusement, but she is really not suitable for being a wife. After calming down, I still feel that although I am not very satisfied, my ex-wife is relatively more suitable, so I want to turn back.
Of course, the above does not include fake divorce for various reasons.
Why did you get divorced? Is it true or not?
If you are divorced and have children, maybe you want to take care of them. If not, maybe I want to do what I wanted to do before. Divorced people can't be together. What kind of thing is this divorce without leaving home?
Is this the so-called divorce without leaving home? There are many such things in society. A few years ago, when family planning was being implemented, the couple I knew were pregnant and divorced, but they still lived together. The child was born and the account was closed. They went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to remarry. This is a fake divorce for the children. If you look closely, you will find that many people do this in order to have a second child.
There is also a divorce just to buy a house. One of the husband and wife has a house, and in order to buy another one, a fake divorce is also a divorce without leaving home. But this divorce is probably fake. The two divorced, bought a house and won't remarry with you. At this time, you can't cry if you want.
In the end, the two divorced because they couldn't live any longer. But after the divorce, because there is no place to live, the two still live together, but there is no husband and wife life, just like two roommates. I don't care who you bring back or who I sleep with. You can eavesdrop, but it is you who are angry after eavesdropping. Don't blame me for being angry.
Another kind of divorce is that couples can't live any longer. But they are still thinking about their children and acting in front of them. On the surface, it is still a family. In fact, the household registration books are no longer together. Wait until the right time to tell the children.
It's really convenient for people to get divorced nowadays. Go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to fill out a form and stamp it. Your legal marriage will end. You were lovers before you were together, and then you were tenants.
It's not uncommon to stay at home after divorce. 1 We should have been together for a long time before divorce, and we still have feelings for each other, and we won't be very comfortable when we leave, because we are afraid that both parents will know that they can't accept it, that they can't stand the blow, that they are sorry for the elderly, or that they will care more about their children because they are still together. There may be many reasons, which is good, and there may be remarriage. It is better for a man to cook with other women than for his wife. It is better for a woman to mix with other women when she touches other men. It would be nice if they got the certificate after discussion.
Divorced, dragging people around like this, and then flirting outside hey ...
Nowadays, many divorces are put forward by women, and men actually don't want to leave. Even if they agree on impulse, many people will regret it later. As a result, men are ashamed and want to stick together. As the saying goes, one day's husband and wife are grateful for a hundred days. What if a woman is soft-hearted? Especially families with children. The state should set an impulsive period for young people's marriage, and divorce is allowed only if they can't stay.