Tell me an example around you.
I have a friend named Ayue. She and her husband, A Qiang, were originally very happy, and they were both junior high school classmates. It can be said that their feelings have deepened. When Ah Yue is pregnant, she often has to have children for physical reasons. Sometimes, A Qiang's request to share a room will be rejected by Ayue. She thought she could share the room after giving birth, but Ah Yue didn't want to share the room with A Qiang because she didn't have much energy to take care of the children. When the child was more than three months old, Ayue finally wanted to share a room, but her husband refused, for ridiculous reasons. It turned out that she was tired from work and even said that she would work hard the next day and sleep in the study.
Ah Yue sees the light in her husband's room still on in the middle of the night every night, and she is very distressed by her husband. Once I cooked some tonic soup for my husband in the middle of the night, only to find that my husband hurriedly put away his mobile phone and couldn't answer Ayue's question. At this point, Ayue had more doubts about her husband, which was quickly confirmed.
It turns out that A Qiang had a good chat with a female intern colleague of the company when Ah Yue was pregnant. Sometimes she works late and has a midnight snack with this female colleague. After a midnight snack, they had sex and have been ambiguous ever since. Although I didn't open a house many times, I actually betrayed each other. This is the most unbearable thing for Ayue. Ah Yue is determined to divorce A Qiang.
After the divorce, A Qiang openly fell in love with the female colleague, but Ayue's former in-laws refused to accept the female colleague, and they never got married. Later, A Qiang's work efficiency became lower and her salary became less. That female colleague often complained and broke up in less than two years.
Now that Ah Yue's child is over 2 years old, A Qiang especially regrets seeing such a lovely child, thinking that Ah Yue can accept him again. Unfortunately, even if Ayue is willing, Ayue's parents will not be willing.
People who betrayed each other and divorced in their lives later had all kinds of ideas. They were firm when they divorced. After divorce, as long as you are slightly unhappy, you will remember the good times and then ask for remarriage.
I know I'm sorry for the other party and agreed to divorce, but betraying him was just a moment's carelessness. After the divorce, I found that I still can't let go, and then I will make up for it, hoping that the other party can forgive myself.
Others live happily with others after divorce. Although the previous marriage was my own fault, I am willing to start from scratch after remarriage.
4. I don't want to be bound by marriage after divorce, and then I fall in love and don't get married.
In short, everyone has different ideas!