This sentence was made by Ling Jie, 50 years old. It's already midnight. Ling Jie has been busy all day, lying in bed, and then picking up her mobile phone to release the pressure of the day.
Yes, Sister Ling has been worried about her rationality for years. Once, she believed in the word "emotion" too much. But at this age, when she encountered these difficulties, she realized that I had been wrong for so many years.
She said she was an idiot and attached too much importance to her feelings, but human nature was cruel. When she was down and out, she thoroughly saw the word human nature. In Ling Jie's words, the rest of my life depends on money, not men and feelings.
0 1: Love is unreliable.
Everyone is young and crazy about love, and Ling Jie is no exception. The young sister Ling is very beautiful. She dreamed of the stories in Qiong Yao's novels, so she hoped that one day a young boy suddenly stopped in front of her on a bicycle, and then she started a wonderful story with him.
Sister Ling did meet such a person, but it gave her a broken dream. When Sister Ling just graduated, a foreigner moved in next door. They came to visit relatives. Later, because of some things to deal with, I temporarily rented it next door to Ling Jie's house.
Sister Ling's dream is to find someone who can give her love. As she dreamed, he was high in Shuai Shuai, riding a bicycle and galloping past her. Young and energetic, Ling Jie fell into a dream.
Soon, they really fell in love, but the boy's family was going back to his hometown, and Ling Jie gave up his studies for love. Despite the opposition of her family, she had to run away from home with the boy.
The later story is very cliche. Like all women who enter the besieged city, she has to face daily necessities and trivial matters. The more Ling Jie realized her grievances, especially when the people I once loved stopped paying attention to her, she began to regret her original determination.
The divorce was initiated by a man. The reason he gave was that Ling Jie was too angry to communicate. Sister ling is very wronged in all aspects. She can tolerate men's poverty, but men think it is heinous to be angry. After the divorce, Ling Jie went back to her hometown with her children alone. This man sends her living expenses every month, but he needs Sister Ling to keep a good record of every account. He said that the money was for the children and he wanted to be responsible for it.
Since then, Ling Jie's life has been very difficult. If she wants to raise her son, she can't concentrate on her work. The childcare fee given by the other party is basically not enough to do anything, but Ling Jie can't bear to throw the child to a man who doesn't serve. She just gritted her teeth and raised the child by herself.
Sister Ling said that if she had known I was like this, she would never believe in love. Now Ling Jie is 50 years old. She suffered too much in the first half of her life. Now she finally knows that in this life, she can only rely on money, not love.
02: Friendship is unreliable
When Ling Jie just came back from a different place, she was convinced that my choice was right. Because those friends who haven't contacted for many years see her as kind as sisters who haven't seen her for many years, she said that I finally returned to my center, and if there is nothing else, she can't give up this friendship.
Among these valuable friends, Sister Ling's best friend is one. When Ling Jie just came back, she just needed time to drive her for a ride, take her to eat the most delicious food, chat with her and go shopping with her. For a moment, Sister Ling felt that it was really a wrong decision for me to get married far away.
Ling Jie's best friend even planned the future for her, what kind of job she should find, whether she should remarry in the future, and even what kind of person she should marry. More than once, she had a serious conversation with Ling Jie.
She told Sister Ling that no matter what help you need, just ask, and she is duty-bound. Sister Ling was deeply moved. She thinks friendship is more valuable than love. Because love is only temporary, once spoken, it will change, even become ugly and painful, but friendship is different. It is solid and will not fade. Sister Ling was deeply moved by my friendship.
However, it is said that money is the touchstone of all feelings. Has friendship really been consolidated? Ling Jie's best friend has a good income, and her husband's family is also a rich family. Seeing that she usually spends money lavishly, Sister Ling knows that she is not short of money. And she told Ling Jie that she could always find her if she was in trouble, and Ling Jie fell in love with her.
There was a time when Sister Ling wanted to open a small noodle restaurant. She told her best friend what she thought, and her best friend raised her hand and agreed. But when she asked her best friend to borrow money, she hesitated. First, I said I didn't have the money, and then I said I should be careful when opening noodle restaurants. Doing business is not that easy.
Sister Ling heard her euphemistic refusal from the contradictory words of her girlfriends. She immediately understood that friendship is strong, but only if you can't mention money. In the face of money, any feelings are not worth mentioning.
03: The rest of my life depends on money.
For a while, Sister Ling began to be silent. She refuses all parties and social activities. Now she finally understands the importance of money to a person. Without money, women can't get the love they want Without money, even friendship is fake. No one will cherish and pay attention to everything she has paid.
Sister Ling started a quiet life. She is busy with her life during the day, working two jobs and learning some professional skills online at night. Because someone told her that if she wants to turn over, she can only rely on her confidant, not her salary. In this way, she will be poor until she is old. As long as she lives and works hard, there will be hope for her life. So no matter how uncomfortable she is, she will study hard until late at night, so that she will work hard.
In the first half of her life, she wasted extra spirit and emotion on love and friendship, but when she was in trouble and needed help, love and friendship seemed so bleak. In the face of money, love and friendship are powerless and even ironic. Sister Ling said that she once regretted her innocence and entrusted her true feelings to the wrong person, but she wanted to be grateful for these experiences. If not, she still won't wake up and understand that money is one thing.
Stumbling to the second half of my life, she said that I didn't want to fight back, but she finally understood that relying on myself is better than relying on anyone, and believing in money is better than believing in feelings.