Yes, I want to tear Mimeng. It's really weird. The article "All shall be well, jack shall have Jill" made this rich man get married and go public in IPO, just like how happy he was. Haha, it turns out that although the world is utilitarian, it has not yet reached the rhythm of "getting rich"
Can't you get married without money? Is it possible that all happiness orientations in this world are "money-centered"? Make everyone talk about money, everyone is anxious about money, and everyone is worried about the house. It's not just such a big v that arouses public anger. What role can it play? Complaining and sighing "I am poor, I can't get married, this is the world of the rich" is empty. Fear of chaos in the world, whether people can live a good life, is so special.
I have said more than once that happiness in one's life is not just a matter of money. You should find your own position and live a good life within the scope of reality.
Watching the TV series "in the name of people" these days has given me and other ordinary people another understanding of money. A small official used improper means to hide more than 200 million cash in a mansion. And when I think about why he hid the money at home, I must take it out, and I will mention how abnormal and distorted a person's psychology is:
"I have to look at it in a down-to-earth way to feel owned and safe."
But even with so much money, you can't spend a penny. Even the word "filial piety" in your mouth is so ridiculous. You only send 300 yuan money to your old mother every month with 200 million cash in your hand. Dare to ask, what does money bring to a person? How can you have so many? From then on, your life will go to sunshine avenue, galloping all the way. What an asshole!
Yes, I am a poor man, and I can't even earn fifty dollars to write an article. Even so, I still want to talk about what I have seen, what I have experienced, and many people and things who are a little scared, confused and looking forward to reality like me.
Modern urbanites dare not fall in love or get married, but they will encounter a real contradiction: the house. Take the city where I live as an example, Xiamen, a city whose housing prices can be compared with those of Guangzhou, Shenzhen and Hangzhou.
Just at the end of last month, two new policies on property purchase restriction were introduced, which erased many young people's dream of buying a house. These two new policies really hurt a large number of families who just need customers and trade small for big ones.
When the house becomes a boulder on many people's heads, there is a reality that many people are afraid to get married, let alone think about how to survive in this city.
Xiao Wu is my friend, 1992. Even the People's Daily says that people born in 1992 may encounter a "fake crisis", but his anxiety is real. I have been working in Xiamen for four or five years, and I have been in love with my girlfriend for seven years, and I am not married yet. I urged them to end it. You can do without a house. It's good that you two have feelings Xiao Wu said that after all, he is a man and wants to give his girlfriend and future children a home. Their relationship is really good and their work income is good, but the pressure on two young people to buy their own houses is really too great. Plus, I can only look at higher and higher housing prices and sigh one after another.
Xiao Wu said that he might get married after this year, whether he has a house or not. Maybe this money and house can be more real than seven years of love. Indeed, I never believe that "talking about money hurts feelings."
Young people, especially men, should not love all day. Tell your thoughts to the people around you, the girl who is willing to bear and struggle with you. If the girl is willing to accept this, you continue; If girls don't want to, they can break up. She can only say that she is not the right person and you can't give her the happiness she wants.
There are indeed many people like me around me. We don't have a rich family, but we have a heart that dares to fight. Yes, the reality is cruel, but it is not necessarily so. We don't understand the world of rich people, so it's good to arrange our own.
My husband and I are married naked, we haven't had a wedding yet, and there is no so-called bride price money. The necessities in the eyes of these secular people are just a form in my opinion. Weddings and bride price are just a formality, so why push yourself to the wall for the so-called face? It's totally unnecessary!
Of course, we always make decisions by ourselves. What kind of life do you want, what is most important to you, only you two know best. Listen to your parents. Whether they can be happy or not, and what kind of life they want to live, they can only be bystanders, and it is you two who really want to live.
With the same life goal, huge mortgage pressure and little money, we still live a happy life as much as we can.
Yes, we are lovers and house slaves! But if you take care of each other, understand each other and take charge of your own small family, you can naturally get married.
Never demonize money at any time. Money, this thing, really doesn't matter, especially for a person with flesh and blood.
There are always people who miss how simple the love of the previous generation is, but the love of our generation is a seemingly insurmountable natural barrier made up of real things.
To tell the truth, I also want to be rich and marry a rich man. When I am afraid of poverty, I really hope I can marry a rich man and rob the rich to help the poor. But when the rich man reached out to me, I found that he didn't like it at all and was not sincere. I decisively refused, and I know more clearly that that person is not suitable for me and is not the person I am looking for.
And my mother has said this sentence countless times: "Don't think it is good to marry a rich man. If I look down on people, I will never go, let alone associate. Without you, I am my daughter. "
The value of a person is definitely not determined by money, but by you. Do you have a sincere heart? Are you a decent person? Are you a responsible person?
Don't take money to talk to me if a person can't explain it. In a word, I still despise and spit on it.
Miffy said that she talked about a boyfriend, and they got along very well, and it was a trial marriage stage. But this trial marriage, Mimi is a little uncertain about this person.
Mi Fei's boyfriend is an executive of a company, but he has never confessed his financial situation to Mi Fei. After a period of trial marriage, Mifei learned that her boyfriend had his own property. But Miffy pays all these daily expenses. Even once Miffy was in a hurry to use money and asked him for 5,000 yuan. He said no, Miffy thought, if I have any trouble in the future, he won't take money out to save me. What is our marriage?
That's ridiculous. A big man is attracted by money, but thinks that anyone who associates with him is for money. After careful consideration, Miffy broke up with him decisively.
How can you have money and a house, even if you can meet everyone's so-called conditions? I want to live a good life with you, not for any house or money.
An empty house, a person without soul, is even more dry. A man who claims to be rich can buy you anything, and his heart is not on you, which is even more useless.
Some people may say that it is right to have a suitable family, and the rich can finally get married. Shit! All shall be well, jack shall have Jill. Do you think everything will be fine when you get married? There will still be marital conflicts. Two people are not suitable without feelings. Even a prince and a princess are born to break up.
What do you expect from a person who has no feelings for you but only interests? You still expect him to help you when you are in danger. Don't have any illusions, just tell you, it's impossible!
Don't be blinded by concrete and real things all day. Use your head to think about what you want. Why did you get married? What kind of person to look for.
Anyone can have happiness, but the material manifestations of happiness are very different.
The woman who drives a BMW is secretly left out by others; An idle super rich second generation seems to have got everything, so it will be empty, lonely and indifferent; A young man who works hard by himself has his own goals in life, happiness and beauty.
Don't take things too seriously Everyone's life is the same, or it may be meaningless. The difference is that you have to make it meaningful.
A thoughtful housewife. Wechat official account: Liming ID: yibao 8690