Taxi driver Mr. Tang:
Don't you want to?
My daughter got married, the man made a down payment, and I accompanied a car with hundreds of thousands.
It's not that I'm backward. It is a traditional custom for a man to marry a woman in China. The word "marry" is above the word "take, marry" and on the right is "home". When a man marries, a woman marries. Entering the man's door, of course, the man is responsible for looking at the house.
I'm not reluctant to part with money, just a daughter. Everything I have belongs to her, but I can't afford the house.
The man buying a house is a guarantee for the woman. The more money a man spends, the more he pays, and the more he cherishes his marriage. Even if she divorces in the future, the woman will get half of the property. In this society, women are, after all, vulnerable groups. Secondly, it is also a matter of face. The man's willingness to spend money shows that he values my daughter, and I seem to have face as the woman's parents. Isn't it shameful for your family to marry a wife and let her buy a house? I can afford to marry, but I can't. My daughter is not unmarried and not that cheap.
Restaurant owner Mr. Zhang:
Before my daughter got married, I bought her a house in full. But my in-laws bought the wedding room. I will accompany my daughter with a car.
Not that I can't afford it, but that I can't afford it. The man is responsible for buying a house, which can not only examine their strength, but also see their sincerity. When a girl marries, the most important thing is to see if the other person is reliable and can give you a sense of security. The house is also a guarantee for the man to the woman.
It's my boss Zhang who is short of money. It's not a question of money, it's a question of face. If you don't consider these, don't say half, you can give them all. But if I do, how can your man's sincerity be reflected? How is the value of a daughter reflected? Do you want my face as a father?
Farmer Mr. He:
When my daughter got married, she wanted me to pay half the money for a house. Are you kidding?
I am poor and can't afford it. Even if I can afford it, I will never pay it. Not only do you not lose your house, but you can also get a bride price! It's not easy for me to bring up my daughter for 20 years, and I have to buy a house then. Is there such an unreasonable truth in the world?
I'm worried about marrying my son's wife. I have to save money for my son to buy a house. The water spilled by a married daughter is someone else's when she is married, and she can't be blamed.
From ancient times to the present, I have never heard of parents posting their daughters when they get married. How embarrassing! Is the daughter stupid and deaf, or can't she get married without arms and legs? If I pay for my daughter's house, the villagers will laugh their heads off.
Ms. Wang, University Professor:
Yes, why not? When my daughter got married and bought a house, I paid half of the money.
Shanghai's housing prices are so high, you put too much burden on the man's family. I had an agreement with my in-laws to buy half of my family. Later, I suggested that they pay off the mortgage and let them take the loan themselves, which should put some pressure on young people. As parents, we have no obligation to buy a house for our children. We just consider the reality of China and give them a down payment, which is good. If you can afford the loan, you can get the house. If you can't afford it, you can rent a house. Your parents won't pay your mortgage again.
Nowadays, the atmosphere is very bad, and married women are confident to ask for a house and a car. Equality between men and women in marriage. Where do you come from? You are actually in bring disgrace to oneself, essentially exchanging yourself for a commodity, a replica of buying and selling marriage, and kidnapping each other through marriage.
Some people think that they want a house to give women a sense of security. Don't men need security? How to ensure the safety of the man? Some girls are too smart, thinking about the man buying a house, adding their names to the house book, and even after divorce, they can divide the property. This is actually taking advantage of the law and encroaching on other people's property. If the woman wants a divorce, doesn't sharing the property make the other person's money empty?
Nowadays, boys are also very worthless, and their parents are ruined by their marriage. If you want to get married, you can work hard. If you can't afford a house, you don't have to get married. Where is the conscience when you are old? (The picture comes from the Internet. Welcome to leave a comment)