Lazy mother's mother-in-law is only 60 years old now and looks healthy. After going up a few stairs, I said I couldn't stand it and couldn't hold the baby. She is tired with her arms and can't walk far. The mother-in-law across the hall is about 70 years old, and her whole waist is bent, making it particularly difficult to walk. At the age of 78, many people think that she is an old lady who has to walk with crutches. She is senile and capable of having children. This is a miracle in the world.
Is it good to have children in old age? Personally, I think it's definitely not good to have children in old age for whatever reason. 1. It is too risky for pregnant women themselves. Under normal circumstances, women will stop menstruating when they reach the age of 50. After menstruation stops, there will be no mature follicles discharged, and there will be no possibility of pregnancy. Due to the decline of ovarian function and insufficient endocrine, even if pregnant, it may be aborted because of insufficient hormone secretion. If there is a miscarriage, it will be a great blow to the pregnant woman herself. I believe that few people can stand such ups and downs, let alone pregnant women at such an age.
In fact, after the age of 35, women's ovarian function begins to decline, and the quality of eggs is not so good, and with the increase of age, the probability of fetal chromosome abnormality is also increasing. Moreover, due to the limitation of age, pregnant women are more prone to various complications, and there is little choice during childbirth. Generally speaking, the older you get, the greater the risk. Moreover, pregnancy in October is a hard process, which even many young pregnant women can't bear, let alone the elderly over 60.
2. It may not be good for the fetus. If pregnant women are healthy and of moderate age, the quality of eggs will be better, the embryos will be stronger, and the IQ of babies will be more easily inherited from their parents when they are at the right age. If the parents are too old, especially the mother herself, the embryo is not strong enough to give the fetus a better internal environment during pregnancy. Faced with such an old age, caesarean section is usually chosen for safety during delivery, and the fetus will not pass through the birth canal, which will make the fetus' physique slightly worse to some extent. After the baby is born, because the mother is old, she may not be able to breastfeed. Breast milk contains a lot of antibodies, and taurine is more than ten times that of milk powder, which can make your baby smarter. These are incomparable with milk powder. In addition, the older the pregnant woman, the higher the risk of premature delivery. The fetus is not very strong. If the baby is born prematurely again, then the baby needs more manual or machine assistance. Even if it doesn't affect the baby itself, a lot of money loss is not affordable for everyone.
3. The age gap is too big. If the age gap between the mother and the baby is too big, the mother is obviously in a backward state when taking care of the child. In fact, everyone knows how difficult it is to take care of a child. Babies need careful care when they can't walk. After the baby can walk, he needs more physical strength. The child is always running up and down. What should the old mother do? This is a physical difference.
The other is the embarrassment of appellation. If you take the child out, everyone will think it's a grandson. Everyone will be embarrassed if you ask. When the baby was young, it was nothing. When the baby is older, there will be psychological resistance first. The most important thing is that the mother is so old. If she is sixty or seventy, or even over seventy, who knows what will happen tomorrow, leaving a starving child, she will feel uneasy!
In fact, if you are in your sixties and seventies, you really shouldn't consider having children. Why do you have to be a mother at the age of being a grandmother or great-grandmother? Giving birth to a child is a desperate struggle. If you are still at this age, the risk of having a baby is really great, and there is really no need to take risks. Even if I have no children all my life, it has been more than 70 years. In a few years, my life will be finished. I've been through all the ups and downs at my age. A little sorry. It's normal.
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