Most of the online emotional counseling is just general and only provides some routines. Routine is not needed, because the differences between people are too great. If it suits A, it may be meaningless to B.
No one method can solve all problems, even if they are the same. Because in different people's feelings, people's personalities and thoughts can't be the same. Different people should be treated differently.
The problem in feelings is actually not a problem of things, but a problem of people. Know people before you are qualified to discuss things. Emotional analysis is to analyze the individual's personality, thinking and psychology, rather than the general male psychology and female psychology.
It is impossible to get to know each other so deeply through short-term communication on the Internet. So it is better to find a psychologist offline, and it is best to find the other half for consultation.
Whether the consultation work is effective depends on the factors of visitors. Visitors who are good at self-reflection, careful observation of life, rich life experience, active thinking and broad perspective can benefit more from consultation. The mutual cooperation and tacit understanding between consultants and visitors, and the quality of relationship establishment are also affecting the consulting effect.
Most importantly, emotional problems will only be useful if both sides are willing to change together. If one party is unwilling to change, the emotional problem can't be solved.