"My friend introduced me to ask you. She said that we get along like buddies and feel less and less about me. You must help me! "
The eager young man's name is Tian Yang. He has a stable job and an RV. His family introduced Xiao Min through a blind date. Xiao Min belongs to the kind of girl with temperament and vision, and her dress is also very attractive to Xiaotian, so Xiaotian began to pursue it actively.
The following is taken from Xiao Tian and Xiao Min's daily chat:
Before consulting me, after being rejected by girls, Xiaotian fell into serious self-doubt and questioned whether she was not suitable for dating.
In fact, many boys are like Xiaotian. When they meet a girl they like, they can't wait to express all their time, energy, money and love to her, and they are all moved. The girl said, "You and I can only be friends."
Xiaotian is a typical straight-line talker. Even if the girl reacts well, she will only continue to ask questions. When asked about girls' annoyance, girls are naturally emotional, and they are more interested in emotional experience. If you only ask questions, she can only treat you as a passer-by, give you up and find a man who can bring her feelings.
So how should we chat?
The eager young man's name is Tian Yang. He has a stable job and an RV. His family introduced Xiao Min through a blind date. Xiao Min belongs to the kind of girl with temperament and vision, and her dress is also very attractive to Xiaotian, so Xiaotian began to pursue it actively.
The following is taken from Xiao Tian and Xiao Min's daily chat:
Before consulting me, after being rejected by girls, Xiaotian fell into serious self-doubt and questioned whether she was not suitable for dating.
In fact, many boys are like Xiaotian. When they meet a girl they like, they can't wait to express all their time, energy, money and love to her, and they are all moved. The girl said, "You and I can only be friends."
Xiaotian is a typical straight-line talker. Even if the girl reacts well, she will only continue to ask questions. When asked about girls' annoyance, girls are naturally emotional, and they are more interested in emotional experience. If you only ask questions, she can only treat you as a passer-by, give you up and find a man who can bring her feelings.
So how should we chat?
First, create contrast.
First, create contrast.
When we get along with girls, a woman's rational brain is completely controlled by her perceptual brain. Only by constantly stimulating her emotional brain will she have an emotional reaction and catch up with her.
Making contrast can produce unexpected effects and leave a deep and unique impression on each other. In the storyline of TV movies, the director often creates a contrast between the characters and the storyline, and attracts the audience through such an effect. Similarly, chatting with a girl can make a contrast and make her laugh unexpectedly.
For example, if you chat face to face with a girl, one second you are serious, and the next you become a playful face with your tongue sticking out. Through such visual contrast, girls can be teased and given a sense of humor.
Create a strong attraction by creating a very strong emotional contrast for women. Simply put, it is pain that makes women happy. Happiness and pain, happiness and sadness, women are standard emotional animals.
Look at the chat below:
Second, deliberate misinterpretation.
Misinterpretation can usually play a great role, easily resolve the information that is difficult to reply in chat, and resolve the embarrassing atmosphere in chat, thus mobilizing the other party's emotions and making girls giggle.
In fact, misinterpretation is to look at the problem from another angle and give people an unexpected feeling. You can catch a keyword in the conversation, or you can catch an information point in the conversation, and you can misinterpret it through association. In short, it is to give girls an unexpected mood fluctuation.
Of course, if you want to attract girls, misinterpretation is best linked to girls, so as to achieve the purpose of improving relations with girls through misinterpretation.
Look at the chat below:
Third, exaggerated imagination.
Daily chat is dull, but if we can spice it up through exaggeration, a dull topic of daily chat can be born.
When we get along with girls, a woman's rational brain is completely controlled by her perceptual brain. Only by constantly stimulating her emotional brain will she have an emotional reaction and catch up with her.
Making contrast can produce unexpected effects and leave a deep and unique impression on each other. In the storyline of TV movies, the director often creates a contrast between the characters and the storyline, and attracts the audience through such an effect. Similarly, chatting with a girl can make a contrast and make her laugh unexpectedly.
For example, if you chat face to face with a girl, one second you are serious, and the next you become a playful face with your tongue sticking out. Through such visual contrast, girls can be teased and given a sense of humor.
Create a strong attraction by creating a very strong emotional contrast for women. Simply put, it is pain that makes women happy. Happiness and pain, happiness and sadness, women are standard emotional animals.
Look at the chat below:
Second, deliberate misinterpretation.
Misinterpretation can usually play a great role, easily resolve the information that is difficult to reply in chat, and resolve the embarrassing atmosphere in chat, thus mobilizing the other party's emotions and making girls giggle.
In fact, misinterpretation is to look at the problem from another angle and give people an unexpected feeling. You can catch a keyword in the conversation, or you can catch an information point in the conversation, and you can misinterpret it through association. In short, it is to give girls an unexpected mood fluctuation.
Of course, if you want to attract girls, misinterpretation is best linked to girls, so as to achieve the purpose of improving relations with girls through misinterpretation.
Look at the chat below:
Third, exaggerated imagination.
Daily chat is dull, but if you can spice it up with exaggeration, the dull topic of daily chat will sprout, giving people rich emotional experience and quickly igniting the atmosphere of chat.
Humor doesn't mean that you tell each other logically, "I am usually a very humorous person." The other person believes that you are a humorous person, but you can judge by your words and deeds. If you bring your own humor, you don't have to say it yourself at all, and the other party can naturally perceive your humor.
Of course, this kind of exaggerated chat should pay attention to the occasion. If a girl is depressed, you will deliberately chat in this exaggerated way, which will give people a strange feeling. Instead of making girls laugh, they will be labeled as low emotional intelligence by girls.
Look at the chat below:
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