In fact, the so-called right match is essentially that the old couple are afraid of loneliness and hope that their children will be around and feel safe when they are old. No matter your parents or her parents, what they are most afraid of is that their children are far away, whether geographically or psychologically, and they feel insecure when they are old.
So the most fundamental way is to find a good job after graduation. The money you two earn is enough for a family of six to live together, preferably not in the same room, on the next door or floor, and the living standard is not bad, and neither side complains.
I am from the south, my husband is from the north, and both of them are only children. My parents don't approve of my leaving my hometown, and my parents-in-law don't want him to leave the north. Finally, we analyze it together. The urban economy in my hometown is much stronger, and we can live a better life here. In fact, parents still want their children to live well. Now there are three houses in our family, all of which are close and live together. There is no contradiction. It's just that we delayed getting married for eight years.