I won't marry without 60 thousand bride price. It has cost 400,000 to buy a car and a house. Is it unreasonable to ask for a bride price?

Bridal gifts have always been a headache for many male compatriots, because most female friends want bridal gifts now, and there are not a few. Of course, the bride price is not only money, but also houses, cars, gold, clothes and so on. For male friends, it is very difficult to get married, and a solid economic foundation is needed to get married better.

Ashu and Xiao Zhao are getting married. They have been together for three years. During these three years, both sides got to know each other and their families, so they are ready to go further and get married.

Xiao Zhao is very keen on getting married. She started preparing several years ago, and slowly saved a sum of money, plus some support from her family. So, he decided to go to the wedding room with Aishu. After seeing the wedding room, they decided to choose a two-bedroom apartment, which is not only conducive to life, but also allows their parents to stay for a while.

Two people looked at the house, discussed it, and finally took a fancy to a two-bedroom apartment, but the two-bedroom apartment needed a down payment of 300 thousand. Xiao Zhao said it was a bit difficult, so he directly discussed with Uncle Ai and said, "It's a bit expensive to pay 300,000 yuan down for this two-bedroom apartment. Shall we choose again? "

Ai Shu shook his head and said, "It's a good deal to buy a two-bedroom apartment in this lot. There are both buses and subways nearby, and it is also close to hospitals and schools. This 300,000 down payment is a very cheap price, and we have to plan for the future. Take this house for example. "

Xiao Zhao certainly knows the location of this house is very good, but the down payment price is a bit high. Because he only has 400 thousand in his hand, he needs to buy a new car in addition to buying a house.

He felt that the down payment for a house of 300,000 yuan did not meet his requirements, but looking at such a firm love of books, Xiao Zhao had no choice but to bet the money for buying a car on the house. Finally, I bought this house with a down payment of 300,000. But the car can only buy a car of 654.38+ ten thousand yuan.

After the RV was repaired, another headache for Xiao Zhao came. The love book said to Xiao Zhao, "If you want to get married, you need a bride price of 60,000 yuan. If there is no bride price, it will be a headache. "

Xiao Zhao was very angry: "I have spent 400,000 yuan on a house and a car. How can I have 60 thousand yuan? "

"If you don't even have a bride price of 60,000 yuan, how dare I marry you?"

Xiao Zhao got even angrier when he heard this. He said, "I have spent all my money on our wedding, even taking out my savings and those of my parents. "

"The money is spent on buying a house and a car. Now you ask me for 60 thousand bride price, and I can't come up with it at all Is your family going to pay this 60 thousand bride price? Is there anything we can't discuss? "

Ai Shu was very angry about this and said, "Our family wants this 60,000 yuan, which is very small. Look at my married colleagues, who is not a bride price of 654.38+ 10,000. Their bride price is so rich, now I just want your 60 thousand bride price, and you still can't come up with it. I am so disappointed in you. "

"You are disappointed in me, I am disappointed in you. We have been together for three years. Don't you see how much I've done for you in these three years? Or are you heartless at all? "

"Don't I spend less money on you? I'm not saying I don't want to give a bride price, but I just bought a house and a car now, and I don't have 60 thousand yuan at all. "

"My parents have no money, and now you force me to pay this 60,000 bride price. Where do you want me to rob a bank? " Xiao Zhao shouted.

Uncle Ai didn't want to hear this, and roared, "Don't tell me so much. You have worked for so many years, but your savings are so small. How dare you tell me so much? " If you can't get a bride price of 60 thousand yuan when you get married, then break up and don't get married again. "

When Xiao Zhao heard this, his heart almost cooled. In order to marry Uncle Ai, I took out all my savings and even emptied my parents' pension, but I finally got this sentence.

Xiao Zhao sat on the sofa for a long time, and never recovered. Love book broke up and slammed the door, and the whole house looked empty and cold.

Xiao Zhao thought and thought, and finally decided to go home and discuss it with his parents. When his parents knew the situation, they advised Xiao Zhao, "You two are married now and have bought a house and a car. If their family really wants 60 thousand bride price, then your father and I will help you borrow it so that we can get married. "

Xiao Zhao was very unhappy after hearing this. A person whose parents have been strong all his life would rather not get married if he wants his marriage from others. Moreover, the love of books also broke his heart, so he decided to break up his marriage.

After deciding to break off the marriage, Xiao Zhao was very agile. He immediately began to show his cards to aishu and said, "I'm not going to get married." We haven't got a marriage certificate yet, so it's not too late to break off our marriage. If you insist on a bride price of 60 thousand yuan, then we can forget it. "

Love book was furious when he heard this, and shouted at Xiao Zhao, "Break up if you break up, or break up if you break up. Let's not meet again. "

Aishu and Xiao Zhao finally got to this point, mainly because they didn't communicate deeply. Both of them are grumpy and pay more attention to their own feelings than others, so they can only break up in the end.

After lovers get together, if they can't tolerate each other and don't communicate in depth, the final result will not be very good, even if they are together, they will not last long. If you want to be together for a better and longer time, husband and wife must trust and tolerate each other, and learn to communicate when they meet things, otherwise their love will have problems.