First of all, I understand your current predicament and emotional pain. In this case, I want you to take the following steps to solve the problem:
1. Seek legal advice: Please consult a professional lawyer, explain your situation in detail, and know your rights and interests and feasible legal channels. They will be able to provide you with specific legal construction and help.
2. Collect evidence: collect all the evidence related to your situation, including marriage certificate, real estate license, bank transaction records, etc. This evidence will help you prove your rights and interests and support your claim in legal proceedings.
3. Mediation or litigation: According to the structure of lawyers, we can try to solve disputes through mediation or litigation. Mediation is an informal way to solve disputes, and an agreement can be reached through consultation with the other party. Mediation is unsuccessful, so you need to consider bringing a lawsuit to protect your rights and interests.
4. Division of property: your's marriage has been dissolved, and it is necessary to negotiate with his ex-wife or divide the same property through the court. In this process, your lawyer will be able to help you ensure that your rights and interests are protected.
5. Seek support: In this difficult period, don't bear the pressure and emotional troubles alone. Seek the support of family, friends or professional psychological counselors, who can help you cope with emotional difficulties and provide substantive support and construction.
Please remember that each case is unique, and the above structure is for reference only. The best solution will depend on your specific situation and legal requirements. Therefore, it is strongly recommended that you consult a professional lawyer to obtain a personalized legal construction.