Student name: XXX.
Class: Grade 3 (1).
Gender: male.
Age: 9 years old.
Basic scenario:
Poor grades, especially since this semester, grades have gradually declined. I don't concentrate in class, I'm always groggy and listless, and I'm always prone on my desk. He refused to do his homework, sometimes interfered with his classmates' classes, and his parents separated. He doesn't care about him at all, as if he were giving up on him. Grandpa is too strict with him.
Basic scenario:
There are many reasons for this.
1, parents, parents' separation has a great psychological impact on children. Grandpa's high standards and strict requirements have brought greater psychological pressure to children, and children are prone to frustration. For some children, despite their best efforts, they can't meet the requirements of parents and teachers.
However, in the eyes of teachers and parents, they only saw the results that they didn't dream and didn't meet their expectations, but they didn't see the efforts made by their children. In the long run, students' interest in learning will disappear.
2. In terms of students, the simplicity and kindness of rural students are their advantages, but at the same time, they also have shortcomings such as less discipline and laziness. After school, they have plenty of free time, large activity space and their own free paradise, so they often forget their studies because of the present.
Some children always tend to blame setbacks on the outside world or others, and never realize their responsibilities. Over time, it is easy to get into the bad habit of shirking responsibility and blaming others.
Consultation process:
For the top students, teachers should study the students' reality and carry out education and teaching activities according to the students' actual situation.
1, individual talk: Teachers often talk with individuals to fully understand their psychological status and psychological causes of problem behavior.
2. Pay attention to praise. Praise can create miracles for children, while too much criticism will create a "sheep" with inferiority and cowardice; Punishment often causes children to have rebellious psychology and revenge psychology. In the process of education, pay attention to his progress, even a little progress, and give timely and enthusiastic praise. Try to create conditions for him to experience the joy of success and let him gradually accumulate confidence in his study, life and himself.
3. Communicate and coordinate with parents. Through home visits, telephone contact, interviews with parents at school, etc., we can understand parents' educational attitude, and point out that such educational methods will not only fail to achieve results, but will make children have rebellious psychology.
Ask families to give their children more warmth and do a good job of transformation. Guide family countermeasures. (for example, check your child's homework regularly; Guide learning, help children solve learning difficulties, spend more time communicating with children, and give timely encouragement to their progress.
Educating children is a long and arduous responsibility. We should pay more attention to children's psychological development, educate and guide them in time when problems are found, and let them grow into socialist successors with healthy personality.
Consultation effect:
After counseling, the children's homework completion rate has improved and their grades have also improved.