However, in practice, there are still more parents who make academic and life choices instead of their children, spare no effort to urge and force their children to stay up late and study hard.
It seems that as long as children are admitted to famous universities, the fate of children and families can jump and change, and even most related problems in employment, marriage and life can be solved.
But in fact, exam-oriented education is not everything, and happy education can not be ignored.
The most important thing in educating children is rationality, tolerance and care. It doesn't mean that parents take a pure exam instead of their children or make an extreme choice of pure happiness. Children's lives will be happier than their peers.
Moreover, most children who learn bullying are particularly good at learning, but in the workplace and business, they are often caught in a job dilemma with excellent resumes but poor performance because of poor communication and disagreement.
This shows that children can only learn knowledge theory and problem-solving methods in exam-oriented education that pays too much attention to rote learning, but they cannot have a more comfortable, free and laissez-faire emotional life like children under happy education.
Of course, the so-called "happy education" is not just as long as children are happy. As long as the child feels relaxed, comfortable and happy, he can ignore his studies, achievements and even the cultivation of his character and morality.
True happiness education should be under the framework of part of exam-oriented education and academic education, under the premise of ensuring diligent study and academic performance, giving children more heartfelt companionship, and at the same time leading children to experience different lives, environments and concepts, so that children can improve their thinking and knowledge level while recognizing and feeling the outside world.
After all, in today's increasingly severe employment situation and workplace environment, it is totally useless for a child to learn to be happy, eloquent and eloquent, but without education, knowledge and skills that can reflect his own value.
If you don't have a degree, most employers won't let you enter the interview session after the written test;
Without knowledge, the company boss just wants to put you in a high-paying position and has no way to start;
Without skills, it will only delay, delay and reduce the performance and efficiency of relevant departments of the company.