1. When children are naughty, if they are at home, adults can be naughty with them and do some destructive behaviors together. In fact, they are very happy. If adults think they can't join, there's no need to stop them. Most of these behaviors are limited. If you don't get a response from adults, they will get bored. If it happens in public, especially if the child's behavior infringes the public interest, we need to stop him, but there are many ways to stop him. Half of them will be indirectly stopped, such as distracting the child, telling him a story, or asking some questions and playing some word games, instead of directly stopping them.
2. Be patient with children's playfulness. It takes time for children to grow up. You can't ask a child to abide by social norms like an adult and learn to understand the feelings of others. Children's physical and mental development needs a process. If we intervene, it may cause the child to become a darling without personality, and it may also cause the child's rebellious psychology.
I hope each of us can protect our children's personality and don't interfere too much. I believe that every child is kind and beautiful in essence, but please don't judge by the standards of adults.