The second marriage is not licensed, and it is usually the disadvantaged party who suffers.
Sister Wang and her husband are both married for the second time and each has a child. I haven't got a marriage certificate because I don't intend to have any more children. Unexpectedly, the two people get along well together, and the two children get along well. Sister Wang's husband is a cart driver with a monthly salary of 1 10,000. His boss is in charge of meals and telephone bills, and pays his salary to Sister Wang every month.
Sister Wang also felt that the marriage certificate was just a dead letter, and it was more important for men to show their heart and lungs. Therefore, the application is delayed again and again, and it is four years.
However, things are unpredictable. After living with a man for four years, Sister Wang died in a car accident.
The insurance company and the car owner paid more than 400,000 men to Sister Wang, but when it comes to money, I heard that Sister Wang and the man didn't get the license, and the male parents and brothers all came forward, saying that money has no legal relationship with Sister Wang, and it should all belong to the male parents and minor children.
In this way, Sister Wang suffered a big loss and moved out of the man's house with her daughter, depressed for a long time. She often says that if I had known the certificate was so important, I would have urged him to get it, alas! Who would have thought this would happen!
Sister Wang regretted it, but it was too late.
When my uncle was almost seventy years old, my aunt died. With the consent of his children, he found a wife ten years younger than himself. The two reached an agreement to stay together in order not to have anything to do with the real estate in the future, so they didn't get a marriage certificate.
At first, their lives were very beautiful. Because of the company, my uncle's complexion is obviously much better than before, but it doesn't last long. My uncle stood up a little anxious when dressing one day, suddenly fell to the ground and had a stroke.
My uncle's wife only waited on him in the hospital for a few days and then left with her daughter. She said, since you have children, we haven't got the certificate yet, so let your children take care of you!
Uncle opened his mouth for a long time, only a bunch of saliva flowed out, and he didn't even say a complete sentence.
So, don't underestimate this paper. At the critical moment, it is the patron saint of life. That piece of paper not only binds the strong, but also protects the weak in marriage in a legal sense. Whether it is the first marriage or the second marriage, it doesn't make any difference whether you have a certificate or not when you are fine. Once something goes wrong, most people who can't get the certificate will suffer.
It is a de facto marriage that the second marriage is not licensed. If both husband and wife feel comfortable living together, they don't have to consider the loss.
1. After Grandpa Wang died, Grandma Wang, who had no labor insurance, remarried to her son to reduce the burden. They live together without a marriage certificate. They cook something to eat every day, go out to play, and have a good life.
Grandma Wang has no salary. She is responsible for cooking, washing and cleaning at home, and the second wife is responsible for her food, clothing, housing and transportation. Both of them felt fair and didn't see them quarrel.
"Unforeseen things have happened." Grandma Wang's second wife died and she went back to her son's house. Before long, she found another wife. Like the previous lifestyle, the remarried wife is responsible for all her expenses, and she is responsible for taking care of her food, clothing, housing and transportation.
This time, Grandma Wang's wife has a good family condition and her son is very filial and considerate. Every month, she also gives Grandma Wang an extra sum of money for a rainy day.
They don't care about the loss. They think that the two old people are destined to be together, can take care of each other, live a happy life, do not disturb their children, and are healthy. This is the happiness in their later years.
Men and women who didn't get a license for their second marriage can't suffer when they are in good health; If you are in poor health, people who are in good health will suffer, because he (she) has to take care of his (her) wife who is in poor health, and it takes a lot of energy, financial resources and painstaking efforts, and he (she) will feel powerless to the elderly.
2. If the second marriage is between two young people, it will be more thoughtful to consider issues, involving income, property, children and other issues. If the distribution is uneven, there will be a loss mentality.
My friend got married soon after the divorce. They also lived together without a marriage certificate. They all have children. One is afraid that children can't accept it, and the other is uneven interests. Their lives are very irregular.
Although we feel good about each other, we can't always blend in. Wages are paid by oneself, and children pay. They are like two vagrants, living together for two or three days a week, and then returning to their own homes. Their life is not worth advocating.
Marriage is the common life of husband and wife. They can't feel each other's distraction, and they can't consider their suffering. There is a good saying: "A loss is a blessing". Husband and wife are United, life can be stable, and heart can be practical. Once the husband and wife are distracted, they can't let Qi Xin, who works together with Qi Xin, live a happy life.
I didn't get a marriage certificate, but I lived together. I can't be called a second marriage! Women must understand and make their own choices.
Living together without a license is now a man's favorite thing. I once met a divorced man who lived with many ladies after the divorce. I asked him why he didn't get the certificate. A: "After a long time, I finally lost my marriage constraints. Where do you want another marriage constraint? If I am tired, I will never drag my feet and leave. I've had enough fun, and I'll just find someone who can get a certificate to support the elderly. " This divorce
Therefore, a woman who really wants to get married must get a marriage certificate to prove whether the man really wants to grow old with you. If a man lives together without a license, it means he just wants to have fun. Of course, he won't get a license to restrain himself, and he doesn't intend to grow old with you and won't let you participate in his later life.
There are only a few reasons for not getting a license. First, I'm afraid of getting married. I have lost confidence in my failed marriage, but I can't stand living alone, so I choose to live together. Second, I don't want to have marital property disputes in the future. Third, I can muddle through at any time. Without a license, there is no binding force of marriage, and there is no trouble of divorce. Anyway, I'm unhappy and don't want to be together. I can leave at any time, there is not so much involved. Fourth, I don't I always feel that the other party is not very satisfied with me and doesn't want to be separated. Kind of like riding a donkey looking for a horse. So now people's mentality is that if they are separated, they will be separated, and the next time will be better, and they will not cherish their feelings.
To sum up, the point is that the second marriage did not get a certificate. Without trust, everything is vulnerable. Without trust, we can't unite and break up sooner or later! Have a greater impact on women!
Who suffers from the second marriage? It depends on who benefits most in life. To put it bluntly, who holds the financial power? My aunt, in her thirties, refused to be persuaded and married a man in her fifties. My aunt took care of the man for more than twenty years, and left her no money or even a little living expenses after the man died. It is because of our big family that his son promised to send my aunt daily necessities every month. My aunt's loss, of course. There is a man in his fifties next door who, regardless of his children's opposition, has formed a second marriage family with a woman with four children. Later, when the woman and children grew up and got married, he gave them 30 thousand when he went out. Finally, after the persuasion of the village party secretary, his son and daughter-in-law were taken in and died in their own home in a few years. Who suffered? Go and comment for yourself!
A marriage certificate, people who don't understand it and have no legal consciousness may take it seriously and think it's just a dead letter. As long as two people live well together, it doesn't matter if they don't get it.
Two people who get married twice can't get a marriage certificate, and many times it's women who end up losing.
My female colleague is 50 years old, her wife has passed away, her children have become a family, and living alone feels lonely. She was introduced to Lao Zhang. After getting along for a period of time, I feel that Lao Zhang is ok, and the two live together in the name of husband and wife.
We live together, but we didn't get a marriage certificate. Every time a female colleague mentions this matter, Lao Zhang wants to muddle through, saying that it doesn't matter whether he gets a marriage certificate at this age, and female colleagues don't think it's important, so he won't mention it anymore.
After a long time, Lao Zhang's shortcomings began to be slowly exposed. Lao Zhang likes drinking. At first, he was afraid that his female colleagues would be unhappy, but he controlled it. After a year together, I began to indulge myself and drink two glasses a day.
Female colleagues advised Lao Zhang to drink less. At first, Lao Zhang restrained himself. In the end, he can't change his old habits. Besides, he didn't play any role.
In this way, two people were together for three or four years, and finally they were angry and quarreled all the time for this matter. Female colleagues serve Lao Zhang every day, and gradually see that Lao Zhang is not a serious person, just looking for a wife to serve him.
In a quarrel between two people, Lao Zhang finally showed his true colors and deliberately refused to get a marriage certificate. His ex-wife left him because of his drinking problem, and everyone was told.
The female colleague realized that she had been taken in by Lao Zhang. But what can I do? Marriage without a marriage certificate is not protected by law, and in the end I suffered a dumb loss. I waited on Lao Zhang for several years in vain, leaving nothing behind, and I was so angry that my body was not as good as before.
Therefore, two married people really want to live together, and the legal procedures still have to go. The marriage certificate must be obtained, so as not to have a bad influence on themselves and their children once there is any change.
This is bad for both men and women. Marriage is a commitment and a responsibility. It is not only a marriage document, but also a responsibility of both men and women to each other.
The marriage certificate does not separate marriage from second marriage. The certificate is responsible for each other and a guarantee.
My best friend and boyfriend have been in love for five years and are about to get married. The man's family said, "Do the banquet first, and then get the marriage certificate." My best friend disagrees. I must get a marriage certificate first, and then take a shower. Not at night.
My best friend thinks that marriage certificate is more important than anything else. Wouldn't it be better to get a certificate under the protection of love?
A marriage certificate is not only a marriage certificate, but also a promise between two people. When you love someone, you will consider all the problems for her. A certificate is an object representing identity. If you love her, will you be reluctant to give her identity?
I have an aunt and an uncle who left many years ago. Later, I found a 60-year-old grandfather in our neighboring village. At the beginning, my aunt and uncle had a good life. They didn't get a marriage certificate and felt old! That's not necessary.
Later, my aunt fell ill and was hospitalized. My uncle took out all his money to treat my aunt, and my neighbors said my uncle was stupid. You didn't get a marriage certificate, and you didn't have to pay at all.
My uncle was very angry. After menstruation was discharged from the hospital, they immediately went to get a marriage certificate.
With the marriage certificate, the child can register, right? Protected by law.
Certificates are mutual protection. It plays an important role when there is a property dispute.
Happy conclusion: When you love someone, please be sure to think of her. A certificate is not only an identity, but also a commitment to each other.
Many people are too materialistic now. There is no such thing as loss. Whether it is the first marriage or the second marriage, as long as we are happy together. Any wealth of others was originally his. He is willing to give it to you, you accept it, and you don't give it to you. You shouldn't want to keep it for yourself just because you are married. Some women think that if I give you all my people, you should give me wealth, right? On the other hand, he gave himself to you. Should you also give him your wealth? They are all human beings and have equal values. In addition, the society is changing rapidly now. I don't know who will come first tomorrow, or something has happened. Just live happily. Strive for your own wealth, don't think about taking advantage of others, so that you won't get tired of living!
I believe that marriage is a sacred thing. Marriage certificate represents not only 9 yuan, but also a promise in love.