"Daughter, your annual salary is one million. Can you lend 800 thousand to your brother? " What does "can't" warn us?

Fan in once sensational Ode to Joy and Su Mingyu in Everything is Fine are both distressed girls, because they were both born in a patriarchal family. Fan found a job in the city, which can make her live fairly well, but because her mother keeps asking for money, she can't make ends meet, so she can't share a room with others or buy fashionable clothes.

Su Mingyu is also miserable. Growing up, she and her two brothers were very tight and didn't even have tuition. However, she finally won the future with her own strength, found a job and made a lot of money. After her mother died, she was responsible for her mother's funeral expenses, helped her father buy a house and wiped her two brothers' bottoms. Finally, there is a fairly happy ending.

However, TV plays are TV plays after all. If you live in a patriarchal family and have a successful career when you grow up, how will you treat your relatives and what attitude will you say when they ask for money?

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To outsiders, Yan 'an is definitely a blessed girl, because she can have her own independent office at a young age to take care of people at 10, No.20. The most important thing is that her annual salary exceeds one million. While her peers are still struggling for their lives, Yan 'an has established itself in this city and has her own house and car.

Life in Yan 'an doesn't seem to have the slightest disappointment. In fact, Yan 'an has been a little unhappy recently. His grandparents are getting older every day, and he has said several times that he can let them live in the city and take care of them himself.

But the old couple shirked for various reasons and said nothing. Yan 'an is going to take time to go home, and then help my grandparents repair their houses in their hometown to make their lives more comfortable.

On this day, when Yan 'an was talking with a client, her colleague Xiao Chen came over and told her that a person who claimed to be her mother came to see her and was waiting for her in the office. Yan' an frowned and went to see the woman after talking with the client.

In Yan 'an's cognition, there is basically no mother, because this woman has done nothing but give birth to her.

When my mother saw Yan 'an, she didn't have much greetings. She just praised Yan 'an, saying that she made a promise and earned more money in one year than a family earned in decades.

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Yan 'an gave his mother a faint look, because she knew this woman too well. She had always been her neglected daughter. Unless something happened, how could she find you? Sure enough, my mother began to talk about the theme. "Daughter, your annual salary is one million. Can you lend 800 thousand to your brother? "

Yan' an almost didn't think much and refused directly. Mom said angrily, why are you so heartless, regardless of the mutual affection between brother and sister?

Yan' an said flatly, "You left me to your grandparents when you were young. I grew up with my grandparents, who also sold vegetables to make money for my study. If it were you, I would be forbidden to study. If I didn't live up to my expectations, if I didn't graduate from graduate school, would I still earn millions a year? The only people I want to repay are my grandparents. I don't lend money to my brother. Don't blame me for being heartless. You have ignored me for decades. Now that you are short of money, you think of me. I won't lend this money. Unless my grandparents let me lend money to my brother, I might consider it. I owe them, and I really don't owe you. "

Yan' an continued, "Besides, my brother, he denied me as a sister when he was young, saying that I grew up in the countryside, but he grew up in the city? He has never called my sister since he was a child. Are we still brothers and sisters? "

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Finally, my mother left in despair. When Yan 'an called home, my grandparents talked about this little brother. Yan' an knew that his brother had never found a suitable job after graduating from college.

Recently, my brother's girlfriend is suddenly pregnant, and Yan 'an's mother will come to you only when she wants to buy a house and get married. After all, grandparents also love this grandson and hope to have a big grandson.

Back in Yan 'an of the company, I was selfish for the first time. She found the personnel department and arranged a suitable position for her brother. At the same time, she gave 250,000 yuan to her grandparents and gave it to her younger brother in the name of grandparents. 250 thousand yuan is enough for the down payment of buying a house. If he doesn't work hard, he can do nothing about the house.

For a girl, the greatest misfortune is not poverty, but being born in a family that values boys over girls. Such a family can't give the child enough love, so she can only change her life by her own efforts.

Yan 'an is very lucky to have grandparents who give all their love. Even if she lives in a patriarchal family, she is independent after all, and strives to make her life blossom beautifully. Moreover, for girls, the biggest sorrow is not that they were born in family of origin, where boys are preferred to girls, but that they cling to the past and hold back. A really smart person will put down his obsession and earn his own happiness with his own hands.

Fortunately, Yan 'an is a clever girl. She decided to help her brother. Although her mother may not realize her mistake, she allows her brother to have a job and earn money to support his family. As a sister and daughter, she is capable.