Of course, it's not that awei can't find a girlfriend, but because she is too busy at work, she has no time to fall in love. As the saying goes, give up and you will get it. It is because of his devotion to his career that he wants this job with an annual salary of one million.
Awei said that when he was young, he didn't fall in love because of his ordinary appearance and short stature, so he worked so hard, because only in this way did he have the capital to marry the woman he wanted. However, after he got rich, he began to worry that women didn't have the purpose of saving him, but stared at his money, so he pretended to be poor and said that he had nothing at all every blind date, even though every blind date ended in failure, but he didn't.
Awei, who had a blind date again last week, was very angry. He said to me, "Even if she doesn't meet the woman he wants to marry in the future, she will never marry the leftover woman because she has too many problems and he doesn't like it."
It turned out that last week he had a blind date with a woman who was one year younger than him and 33 years old. Her career is average and her family is average, except for her good looks. This woman was introduced by a friend. Of course, that friend still didn't reveal the real situation in awei.
Awei said that when we first met, he still had some affection for the woman, but I didn't know the woman's opening and asked, "I heard that you have a car and a house, so how many suites and cars do you have, and how much is your annual salary?" She didn't give Ayong a chance to speak at all and asked a lot of questions. "
Hearing these questions, awei said to the woman, "The small apartment belongs to my parents and is still here. Car100000 or so, with an annual salary of more than 65438+ 10000. " Hearing awei's answer, the woman's face suddenly changed and her attitude changed. She squinted at awei and said, "You still want to marry me on this condition. Don't waste time, my time is precious. " Is this woman's words, let awei feel particularly uncomfortable, don't play. She said to the woman, "I lied to you just now." I have a million dollars a year, a car and a house, but I won't marry the leftover women. " Then, with the woman stunned, awei left alone.
Awei said that the woman later called him to explain, and awei directly refused. Because in his view, that woman is a gold digger, who obviously has no capital, but is still such a snob and deserves not to marry.
Awei said that although he doesn't discriminate against leftover women, he won't marry them either, because in his opinion, most of them have problems. They either overestimate themselves or like to look down on others, and how can a leftover woman marry a better woman when she clearly has the capital?
As far as marriage is concerned, awei is in no hurry, because he knows that it's not that he can't get a wife, but that he hasn't met the woman he wants to marry.
Bian Xiao has something to say:
As far as awei is concerned, I don't think he did anything wrong. I agree with awei. Although not all older women are bad, most of them have some problems to some extent, otherwise they will not live to this day.
As awei said, when he has more choices, how can he marry a leftover woman who has no advantages in all aspects? Objectively speaking, in the eyes of most men, older women are not only older, but also have lost their youth, and even have greater risks of having children, so they are unwilling to marry older women.
In reality, women may often say: "In this age of more men and fewer women, women can choose at will, and women are not worried about getting married at all." .
But in fact, although it sounds no problem, in fact, it hurts many people. Because women don't worry about getting married, they are only suitable for those particularly excellent women. Even if they lose their youth, they still have other proud capital. For ordinary women, age is their greatest asset. Once you miss it, you will definitely worry about getting married.
I often tell women around me that if you are an ordinary woman, then you should understand that the attractiveness and charm of women will decrease with age. Once you are past your age, you are no longer attractive. When you are an older woman, it is doomed to be empty if you choose a spouse according to the conditions of your youth, so it is very important for women to learn to recognize themselves.
Because in reality, many older women are left behind. The reason why I haven't been married is because I don't have enough conditions, but the requirements are too high to recognize myself, so I haven't been able to get married.
This passage in Mr. Qian Zhongshu's Fortress Besieged is very suitable for all women to read.
In the field of mate selection, there is an unwritten but interesting rule: the person a person likes most and remembers most is often the one he/she doesn't deserve. In fact, there are not so many goddesses, but those who are not worthy of their looks, education, ability, family background and social status;
A person's ultimate companion is often the best person in his optional range. Any long-term relationship is an exact match after the values are sorted.
So I often warn the women around me that the most suitable object for you must be the men you meet, those you can't even touch, so don't think about it. It is doomed to be a fantasy. You were from two worlds from the beginning.
Besides, there is something wrong with awei's strategy, because he is not young. If he always shows that he can't do anything and always tries, then he can't find the right one. Of course, women certainly don't like him because it doesn't give women any sense of security. It is really unrealistic to fall in love at this age. It's good to marry a virtuous and sincere woman who knows life.