In the ninth episode, her immediate boss, Mr. Chen, called her and said that if there is no better treatment and place to go, don't toss around and continue to work. At this point, Fan's response fully exposed her sleek and sophisticated "old slick" in the workplace.
Imagine if it were Qiu Yingying, what would she say? She will definitely shout: "Teacher Chen, I found a better job in an investment company, which is very famous!" I'm never going back! Didn't you give me a raise? I'm not rare now! "
But how did Fan Meisheng do it? Let's analyze it along the dew.
In the first step, Fan first showed his attitude towards the company. I love my company and my job. I thank Mr. Chen and his colleagues for letting me work for so many years. I have been very happy.
How does it feel to be affirmed by the company and teacher Chen? Nature is happy, useful and comfortable.
Secondly, I sincerely explained the reasons for Fan's resignation. It's not that I'm climbing a higher branch, but that my father is paralyzed in bed and my mother can't take care of it alone. I need to quit my job and go home to take care of my parents.
In this matter, Fan has not completely lied, which can be said to be difficult to distinguish between true and false. Because her father was really sick and paralyzed, but she didn't really quit her job and go home. Therefore, Fan's words are sincere, sad and sad, which successfully aroused Mr. Chen's sympathy, because everyone has parents. In a big city like Shanghai, most people in the workplace are from other places, and Mr. Chen may also be a foreigner.
On the one hand, Fan expressed his helplessness, on the other hand, he expressed his nostalgia for his works and showed his feeling of being forced to resign.
At this point, Mr. Chen has begun to sympathize with Fan, so he no longer keeps Fan, but it is still business-like, asking her to act in accordance with the company's articles of association and submit her resignation three months in advance.
However, Fan can't afford to wait. What should we do?
So, Fan made the third move: showing weakness and coquetry on the phone and pleading again and again.
Fan's job is HR, and his working ability is quite strong. Therefore, she is not a dispensable vase of the company. Of course, she is not indispensable. In the workplace, she is still very self-respecting, completely self-respecting, and does not want to be superior to women. Therefore, her boss still respects and recognizes her.
So she spoke kindly, humbly and piteously, and repeatedly emphasized the difficulties at home. Manager Chen relented, and immediately changed his mind and said, then you have taken time to come to the company for resignation procedures in the past two days, and I will give you ten days' salary for going to work at the beginning of the month, which is a little token of the company's affection for you.
At this point, Fan won.
Fan's wit determines that she can't lose money in the workplace, or even earn a little money, but because of this, her realm will stop here and she can't rise to a higher level, which is one of the reasons why she hasn't been promoted in HR for so many years.
But it is no wonder that Fan's family background is birth. Her family has been dragging her down for many years, causing her to be cautious and haggle over every ounce, dreaming of getting the maximum benefit with the least effort.
What will Andy do if she resigns? I'll hand in my resignation, then explain the reasons to my boss briefly, and then turn around and leave neatly.
Therefore, a person's ability and status determine his vision and attitude, and then affect his future development.