Subtitle: Solving life development problems with soft power thinking
Author: Liu
Release date: 20 13
brief Introduction of the content
1, China's keen and realistic life development planning works.
2. This series of books expounds the specific training methods of soft power such as thinking, communication, emotional intelligence, personality, vision and pattern.
3. It puts forward the value hierarchy theory of knowledge, and answers such a universal problem as "why reading can't change fate".
4. It interprets a series of life development theories from a brand-new perspective, such as self-cognition mode, goal-oriented thinking, career orientation steps, entrepreneurial observation training and so on.
Brief introduction of the author
Liu, the current president of Soft Power Company, is a post-80s entrepreneur. He has written books such as "The Grave of College Students" and "Alien", and his research fields focus on business model, marketing management, brand strategy and other fields. The author has experienced twists and turns, and the industry span is a miracle. Because of poverty in high school, one pepper is used for every meal. Later, the soft power company he founded was the first soft power education enterprise in China. Because of introversion, universities hide behind the door to watch students start class meetings. Now there are thousands of lectures in the country, and millions of people answer questions. He chose the wrong major in college, took the wrong exam, went to the wrong company, and finally started a business. The tortuous life experience has given him rich life insights and thoughts, and also greatly improved his career ability. He is engaged in education, making movies and investing, claiming that his life goal is to be a "saint" who integrates entrepreneurs, educators, speakers, hosts, screenwriters and directors.
library catalogue
Chapter I Education
The most serious mistake we make is the abnormal understanding of grades, universities and diplomas. Let's count the evils we have committed in primary and secondary schools and university education for decades.
Chapter II Soft Power
Most people just wander between knowledge and skills, never realizing the beauty of having soft power. You have learned a lot of knowledge in more than ten years, but it is of no value.
Chapter 3 Know yourself
Two concrete ways of self-knowledge. Three ways to make difficult decisions. Find a suitable job in two steps.
Chapter IV Objectives
What is goal-oriented thinking? How to find your goal? How to decompose the target plan into reality?
Chapter V Emotional Quotient
Emotional quotient in job interview. Emotional quotient in sales management. Specific steps to improve emotional intelligence.
Chapter VI Universities
Tragic life is always a wake-up call, walking behind life. An accurate answer to "what to study in college"
Chapter VII Life Development
Four ways to change the current state of life. It only takes four steps to make a good life plan. Three development steps after entering the society.
Chapter VIII Emotion
Summary of emotions. Five prerequisites for stabilizing emotions.
Chapter 9 Life Comprehension
Power source to prevent falling heart meridian: five ways to generate self-driving force. Why do some people never develop all their lives? What is the measure of life?
Sharp sentences in the book
This kind of "ask if you don't understand" person is considered a good student in primary school and an idiot in society ... why don't many people study? Because they haven't felt the power of learning since childhood ... It's not that reading can't change their destiny, but reading those useless books can't change their destiny ... Reading is to exchange ideas with the author through time and space.
The most serious mistake we make is the abnormal understanding of grades, universities and diplomas ... The word "poor students" has killed countless talents for decades ... Middle school is the origin of many people's life tragedies ... In this era, elites exist in society ... Students are getting farther and farther away from computers and information; Closer and closer to entertainment, farther and farther away from books; More and more people will learn by rote, and fewer and fewer people will search for information; There are more and more people who can entertain, and fewer and fewer people have the ability to think independently.
Most people just wander between knowledge and skills, and never realize the beauty of having soft power ... if you compare chess, read, count, learn computers, learn English and so on. You have just gained an instrumental ability, which is equivalent to learning the basic rules of riding a horse like walking in the sun. As for the ability of "layout, judgment, prediction and contingency", that is what a master really has, that is,
The interpersonal relationship of college students can be summarized as follows: the rich can't play with the poor, the thoughtful can't play with the naive, the academic can't play with the active, the entrepreneurial can't play with the dead, the decadent can't play with the progressive, the inflexible can't play with the world, and the progressive can't find a singer.
People with little experience are generally naive ... if you don't want to be cheated by others, you have to go through all kinds of things until nothing can deceive you.
An interesting phenomenon is that these people who have no goals will be stupid enough to take exams and finish CET-4 and CET-6. If there are still scores below, they will be stupid enough to keep taking the exam until they fail. Because he really doesn't know which state to learn to achieve what goal.
Your goal determines what you want to do now, not what you are doing now, which determines your goal.
The rules of this society are: the greater the challenge, the faster the growth, the less competition and the more waste ... Some people want to start a business all day and have no basic sales experience and ability. I think it's better to go to the karaoke bar and order more songs such as When I Wake up.
Don't couples need emotional intelligence to get along? How many couples complain that each other is inconsiderate, delicate and romantic, like wood, and then they are given a gentle knife by outsiders.
College students are enjoying the happiest time in their lives: getting a monthly salary, sleeping naturally, waking up to watch movies, eating when they are hungry, playing games when they are full, reading novels when they are lonely, and falling in love when they are lonely, that's all ... The rich second generation have gone abroad to study, leaving a bunch of second generations: primary schools have not learned talents, and universities have been wronged; The university fails to go abroad and enjoys junk education. When I looked around blankly after graduation, a voice came: Go to the west, go to the grassroots, go to the countryside, where there is much to be done. So the children fell in love with "chicken manure": where it came from and where it went.
In this society, a considerable number of people rely on professional skills to survive. They really don't need any strong thinking ability to integrate the Liuhe Eight Wastes, or to point out the country and devour Wan Li.
It is said that many college students don't know what to do in their spare time. You can tell at a glance that you are a freshman. At least they know what spare time is. Sophomore, junior and senior students don't know what spare time is. For them, every day is their spare time.
Many college students like to live in their own world, close themselves and enjoy themselves. For example, they feel uncomfortable living in QQ, because after all, there are some "heterogeneous", so they moved to Renren. Because it's full of similarities.
Everyone is saved, and the ignorant people are definitely not saved ... Many people lament life: Why do others live better than me if they don't work hard? The reason is very simple, because you are a hard-working person ... Many times, the results of hard-working people are not necessarily better than those of decadent people, because "efforts are not on the point".
I want to tell some students who are actually taking the postgraduate entrance examination: if you take a bad major, you will be worse than the major three years later; If you are admitted to a bad school, a good work unit is basically not your turn; If you go to a bad place, the word "ignorance" is basically equal to you.
Some people spend their lives in countless times of "excitement, decadence, excitement and decadence again" until they are old.
One day you will find that if you lose confidence in the future, or are full of fear, it is because you have given up studying. Only ignorance will make you despair, and nothing else will.
Many people always complain about social injustice. All kinds of resources in this society are monopolized by a few people, so the poor have no chance to turn over. But they still ignore the point that no one restricts your study, no one prevents you from becoming smarter, and no one prevents you from realizing the counterattack in a wise way.
A brief introduction to the contents of the book
1, China's keen and realistic life development planning works.
2. This series profoundly expounds the specific training methods of soft power such as thinking, communication, emotional intelligence, personality, vision and pattern.
3. It puts forward the value hierarchy theory of knowledge, and answers such a universal problem as "why reading can't change fate".
4. It interprets a series of life development theories from a brand-new perspective, such as self-cognition mode, goal-oriented thinking, career orientation steps, entrepreneurial observation training and so on.
The above is the information I know, I hope it will help you.