It is said that Fu Bi, a famous figure in Song Renzong, was abused for no reason when he was young. Someone told him who was scolding you. Fu Bi replied: "Probably scolding others." The man went on to say, "This is naming names. How can it be scolding others?" Fu Bi thought for a moment and replied, "I'm afraid someone has the same name as me." Afterwards, those who misunderstood and scolded Fu Bi felt very ashamed, and they quickly found an opportunity to apologize to Fu Bi. From this story, we can easily see that tolerance is a great wisdom.
The ancients said: "if you forgive others with your own heart, you will give everything;" If you blame yourself with other people's hearts, you are too little. "The latest modern scientific research shows that tolerance is good for physical and mental health. Bai Juyi wrote a poem well: "What is the struggle in the snail's horn? If you stop in the fire of a stone, you will be happy with the rich and the poor. It's an idiot not to laugh. "If you have ambition, you won't care about trifles, argue about the length of a day, or argue about the praise or disapproval of a word. You can be considerate of others and tolerate their shortcomings, just as Feng Menglong said in Augmented Think Tank:" Lack of wisdom, small amount. "People who made great achievements in ancient times were tolerant. In the Tang Dynasty, Han Yu and Liu Zongyuan had very different views on politics and literature. They have been arguing almost all their lives. However, after Liu Zongyuan's death, Han Yu wrote Liu Zihou's epitaph with sad feelings and praised Liu Zongyuan's moral integrity. Han Yu was not disturbed by years of political and literary arguments.
Due to various subjective and objective reasons, everyone will make mistakes of one kind or another. If we can tolerate other people's mistakes in our daily life, we will give each other a chance to correct them. On the contrary, once we make mistakes, we will also get the tolerance and understanding of others. Han Yu, a Tang Dynasty man, said in "Mourning": "An ancient gentleman should not only pay attention to his own duty, but also be considerate of others." The point is to be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. What is tolerance? Mark Twain said humorously, "Violet leaves fragrance on ankle, which is tolerance." Why can some people be frank when they are misunderstood in life? And some people are upset because of a little thing? It is the soul, without the broad feelings of love, tolerance loses the possibility of existence. Tolerance includes understanding, consideration and sympathy. Tolerance can solve people's difficulties, make up their mistakes, develop their advantages and forgive their shortcomings. Tolerance can eliminate barriers, resolve misunderstandings, win friendship and make friends.
The mountain forgave the water for beating its body and became more handsome. The water forgave the mountain for blocking its own way and became more agile. Throughout the ages, how many people of insight have been generous and generous, and they have exchanged their tolerant hearts for happy interpersonal relationships and thriving career success.
The story of Emperor Taizong's understanding and reuse of the throne was passed down as a much-told story: in the battle for the throne with the emperor, Wei Zhi made suggestions and got into trouble many times. After the change of Xuanwu Gate, Wei Zhi became a prisoner of Li Shimin. At this time, Li Shimin can completely cure his sin and kill his head. However, Li Shimin appreciated Wei Zhi's talent and personality very much, so he made him prime minister and helped him realize the famous "Zhenguan rule" in history. Although Li Shimin, as a famous gentleman, respects sages and loves talents, we have to realize that this is also inseparable from his generosity and good understanding of others. Turning over the historical picture again, Qi Huangong understood and reused Guan Zhong, who almost shot himself to death, and achieved hegemony; Ying Zheng, the king of Qin, would have lost the support of a large number of guest ministers such as Li Si if he hadn't listened to Li Si's suggestion that "Haihe River can grow deep because it doesn't choose a trickle", withdrew his marching orders and implemented the policy of letting bygones be bygones and recruiting talents. Lin Xiangru forgave Lian Po of bring disgrace to oneself many times, and shed a beautiful talk of "making peace". Throughout history, without the magnanimity of "all rivers run into the sea", the virtue of tolerance and great wisdom, starting a career will only be empty talk. On the contrary, can those who are narrow-minded and haggle over every ounce achieve something? Mo Bosang has a famous saying: "People who are not polite and harmonious will not only suffer material losses, but also lose the interest of life."
Rand, a famous English poet, wrote in a poem in his later years: "I don't argue with anyone, and I don't care about arguing with anyone. I love nature, followed by art, and my hands are baking the fire of life to keep warm. The fire has gone out, and I am ready to go ... "Rand's poem shows an old man in his twilight years, with a calm, positive and optimistic attitude towards life and a calm and indifferent life realm. It is human nature to make mistakes. In real life, we have no intention of hurting others. We should understand and respect the feelings of others, sincerely apologize and ask others to forgive us. When we are hurt, we should sincerely accept, understand and forgive others' "sorry" apologies. We can't make trouble without reason, harm nature and justice, and we can't repay each other.
Tolerance is undoubtedly a virtue, which has become everyone's knowledge, but tolerance is a kind of life wisdom. Tolerance is a good state of mind, a realm of life, a confident smile, and a calm attitude towards others. Forgive others and release yourself. Tolerance is the foundation of happiness! With more tolerance, people's lives will have more space; With more love, people's lives will be warmer and more sunny!
"Heaven calls it the highest, with no cover; Don't pretend to be wide; The sun and the moon say bright, so everyone takes pictures; Jianghai calls it big, which is unacceptable. " Once a person has tolerance, he has a broad mind, infinite wisdom and great personality charm. Zeng Guofan once said, "goodness is greater than forgiveness." Let each of us have a tolerant heart and be kind to others, so that our mind will be higher than the sky and wider than the sea, the relationship between people will be more harmonious, and people's lives will be better!
The article "The Wisdom of Tolerance" first appeared in the second issue of Good Parents in 2008 and was forwarded by the sixth issue of Quality Education Middle School Edition sponsored by China Renmin University in 2008.
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Reference answer: 1, tolerance is a great wisdom.
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3. A person's living environment is as narrow as a snail's horn, and life is as short as a flash of fire. No matter whether you are poor or rich, you must live a wonderful life and release the potential of life. Whoever is unhappy is happy, and whoever is a fool.
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7. Lu Xun scolded Guo Moruo not only in various public occasions, but also in his own articles. However, after Lu Xun's death, Guo Moruo personally wrote an inscription for Lu Xun Memorial Hall. Guo Moruo said that Lu Xun scolded him all his life, but he wanted to praise Lu Xun all his life; Metaphorical argument; Increase the literary grace of the article and enhance the persuasiveness and appeal of the article.
8. Be generous, be tolerant, be kind to others, have a tolerant heart, and cultivate tolerance into your own life wisdom.