This kind of thing with one enemy and two, itself is backward in number. You are the weak, fighting alone, and the husband and wife echo each other and blush together. How many people can't hold back how many things the husband and wife take turns to fight. As the saying goes, if husband and wife are United, they will break the gold. Now, Mr. and Mrs. Qi Xin will work together with Qi Xin against you. Even if they can't break the gold, they can break your line and make your opponent want to drill. If you don't have Qiaozui Zhang's tongue, it's hard for you to get justice for yourself and go to heaven.
But in real life, it is rare for couples to work together, and it is even more rare to join hands with colleagues who work together. The probability of occurrence can be calculated by bending their fingers. Why do couples join hands to suppress others? What can you bring to yourself by suppressing others? If there is no value and no return, will anyone be willing to do so? If it is something that harms others and does not benefit others, is it still worth doing with such great fanfare? This idea is very doubtful.
Take our school as an example. The husband and wife stalls in our school are very typical, and the rich water does not flow out of the field. Five couples' files. Everyone works and lives in the same school, usually goes in and out together, attends different classes and teaches different books. There will be no conflict with others in teaching and students in consciousness. As colleagues, everyone is smiling, smiling when they meet, at least maintaining a decent scene. So far, I haven't seen anyone make trouble to sow discord, and the harmonious coexistence between colleagues is staged all the time. I don't see the way husband and wife get along and suppress their opponents.
Having said so much doesn't mean that others haven't met it. Although the probability of occurrence is so low, it may actually happen. Faced with such a strong opponent, the possibility of solving the problem once and for all is basically zero. After all, if you attack with one enemy and two fists, you will never get the upper hand, which determines that as long as you are still working in this unit, you can't give up this depressed feeling, and this life is doomed to be restless.
In view of this, in the face of this situation, we might as well try the following two methods:
1, force yourself to become stronger as soon as possible, and see if you have the confidence and strength not to "bird" others. Yes, naturally, these unhappiness will soon disappear. Without it, you can only live with it and no one can help you.
I have to reflect on myself. I have no apologies to others for whether some personal behavior has caused trouble to both husband and wife. Maybe it will be worse, leading to both husband and wife joining hands with you? Otherwise, how can couples go into battle together? Isn't it incredible?
The best way to deal with people is oral communication. Speak your mind and let others know how to respond to you and help you. If you keep everything in your heart, how can others know what you think of others?
Be positive and active in everything, and have more heart-to-heart with others. If you know this truth clearly, you can find a time to talk to the couple generously, talk heart to heart and express your inner depression. I believe that most people around us are kind people. Many times there are problems, that is, poor communication and unreasonable way of speaking, which may cause this kind of unhappiness. Let's talk about it The clouds have dispersed all day. Maybe the problem is not as serious as we thought.