How to get out of the confusion in the grass-roots palace-Mu Yang (transferred to Tang Liqi)

I seldom look at constellations. Today, I occasionally read that a friend recommended Tang Liqi to talk about constellations. How can it be so accurate? I found her blog and recommended this article to everyone, uncovering the dilemma: muddy stagnation and simple ram. For him, life is such a novel, full of question marks and no dilemma. No; But so what? If you have difficulty, solve it. Everything has a solution. If you are short of money, you will find someone. If the chief doesn't agree, you do it first, and finally you leave the team and travel on your own ... when you meet a mountain, you will clear the way. The only thing you can do is to get stuck in the mire. This has nothing to do with his ability, but it is useless to push when the state is stagnant. This is really his greatest pain, especially when he can't do it on his own. His predicament does not come from his ambition, but he pushes his ideas every day, but the external environment is the reason why he can't do anything. In addition, the opposition of others is also his nightmare. In order to realize great ideals, we must pay something, maybe health, maybe a sum of money. Isn't this natural? Everything is to create a better future, not to do bad things. Why do you object? He doesn't understand why everyone is trying to stop him from striding forward. This kind of hand-tied is his dilemma; For others, the mountain can still turn around, but it is difficult for a simple ram to turn around flexibly. He will only be anxious, "What can I do? I can't do anything. Must I give up my plan? " ",others will slow down and ponder when they touch the wall. Maybe they will learn something first and stop insisting, but the ram will just stay put. He is full of blood and can't imagine any other solution to life. The only way he can think of is a discount. He won't give up his plan, but at most he will back down. This is his last compromise. Aries is not afraid of mountains or high walls, and any difficulty can be overcome. Full of firepower and fierce artillery fire. When it comes to mountains, it will create the world. Courage has come, fearless, even failed! (This is nonsense. If a ram fails, it is usually not him but someone else who will deal with the aftermath. What he is afraid of is the quicksand trap, which is endless and soft. No matter how strong and energetic he feels, he can't get away. What else can he do? As long as it takes a day to climb over the wall, you can solve the mystery and enjoy the sense of pleasure and speed; But it is a waste of time to spend a year struggling in mud or quicksand! Self-help is hard to see, draw a sword to help, and sweep away your anger by the way. Is life very sad? Find someone to have a black humor, make a joke, or vent and scold a few words, which can reduce your impulsive anger. Otherwise, it is more positive to give play to his nosy nature, give him a bumpy road, draw out a sword to help him, which is both justified and can ease his anger. Since you want to scold hooligans, you can beat hooligans if you want, but don't bully people who love you around you! In other words, the ram can do something he has always wanted to do, but he has no time to do it, such as cutting his hair or changing his hairstyle. An obvious and substantial change will make the ram look youthful and feel cheerful and bright. Or running in the park, or screaming, even if it causes others to look askance. For him, the most important thing is to let him throw away all the extra energy, anger, trouble and dryness at the first time. Never take it out on a close family member or partner, it will only destroy feelings, and it will take more time to repair afterwards. In particular, we should avoid the desire to race at this time. Although racing gave him emotional pleasure, when he threw away the rational racing car, he even forgot his fear of death in an instant, resulting in the illusion that "it is best to die to get rid of life". "For a simple-minded ram, the first aid method to get out of trouble is just like his working principle: simple, fast and effective! The point is, it must be healthy and safe! Spiritual improvement: slow down, explore your heart and get to know yourself well. The more you face the difficulties in life, the more you have to do the opposite. Contrary to Aries' line of "unity of knowledge and action", you should learn to face up to your inner difficulties through "exploring your heart". Goats with religious ties may wish to get in touch with religion or learn yoga. The more anxious you are, the more you should use slow ways to relieve your limbs and purify your mind. In fact, he never had time to really know himself, did he? From getting up to sleeping, even in dreams, he always looks forward and rarely thinks about himself or the past (in fact, it seems that he can't draw any conclusions). He doesn't know how to stop to see the scenery. Even though he has accumulated infinite wealth and qualifications, he still avoids naive children. Therefore, the wayward life advice of himself and others is just a piece of information, which he forgets after reading and has no meaning. If he is already an old man who has the opportunity to publish his autobiography, he may seriously think, "Is this me?" ? "Curious and fresh. If you want to repair yourself deeply, you must start from knowing yourself; And to know yourself, only slow down and explore your heart. Don't tell me you know how to explore. The innocence of Aries makes them feel contentedly that they have tried their best to be beautiful, so they should seriously learn the skills of self-transformation. For example, "slowing down" is the focus of his life, otherwise anxiety will bring him back to the old road and nothing will change. Curious and active sheep are the leaders there. They are afraid of being left alone ... even playing Zen Seven can't soothe his heart. He can shut up, but his heart and eyes are constantly attracted by insects, birds and light. How can he be quiet? Therefore, pure silence is not suitable for a ram. Yoga can not only concentrate, but also relax the mood during the slow movement of limbs, so as not to fall into one fantasy after another and make the mood more chaotic. In other words, doing housework and cooking are all good ideas. He does housework quickly and well, and seeing the amazing satisfaction on others' faces really makes him feel a sense of accomplishment! Doing housework is one of the advantages of rams. He not only does it well, but also loves it. Taking time to develop the habit of cooking and doing housework, even as a leisure habit, can produce a calming effect, so that he can get familiar with his home and examine his position. Single Aries is not easy to break through from their own career. Although energetic, but only suitable for working for the boss under the company system, no worries. However, married goats are suitable to jump out and be their own masters. With the care of his family, he can take every step steadily. The other half is often the biggest contributor to his success. Without the checks and balances of the other party, how can a goat balance his mood and thoughts? So, when life comes to an end, please stop being willful and find a partner. The most important thing: know how to admit your incompetence in time and be willing to declare failure in time. Failure is temporary, things are not that serious! This is a five-word motto that he must remember. Why are you hurt by love? Why is the career blocked? Think of the first love at seventeen and the terrible breakup at twenty. Didn't you all survive every disappointment? "It's just another failure. There's nothing to be sad about." This dilemma should not continue indefinitely. The pain now may make him want to die, but honestly think: if you give up like this, will there be him alive and successful today? If you want to help him, you must learn to turn the corner first. He doesn't need others to do it for him, and he doesn't want others to hinder him. He learned to stand behind him and become his spiritual pillar. He first raised his hand in favor of any decision he made, told him with the firmest eyes, "I believe you …", and then paused for a minute. "But has it ever occurred to you that we may experience ten years of pain?" Although he is not afraid of difficulties, ten years may be a long ordeal in the eyes of others. However, he is eager to put it into practice, but he just blinks, as if blinking, and then opens his eyes and becomes famous. As long as you don't feel difficult in your heart, there will be no shadow of difficulty. However, your reminder will make him want to think from three seconds to ten seconds. This time difference will allow you to quickly help him secretly delete the wrong decision. You know how much trouble this will save! In order to help him embark on the road to success, the best help is to help him keep what he should, so that failure is not the best backing. What he cares about is not money, but money is only one of the additional conditions for success. From beginning to end, his mind was full of the word "success"! Facing the frustrated ram, "I believe you can" is nothing but empty comfort in his ears. Be considerate and distract him. If he feels that he is an incompetent person and can't do anything well, then create a fulfilling event for him. As long as he has a chance to show his skill, he can arouse his fighting spirit again. Friends around me might as well ask him for help: can you help me think of a way? If you need his help so much, he may blame your negligence, but at the same time, he will soon complete his mission and help others to make himself happy. At the same time, he is full of joy in completing a task with both hands: "I am alive again, of course I can't be discouraged!" " He is not afraid of anything, but he is not afraid of anything. In his dictionary, no trouble is the biggest trouble.