In life, is it related to a person's ability to get along?

In 206 BC, Chu and Han leaders gathered in Xinfeng Hong Men.

The world will be full of ups and downs.

A never-ending wine game, which wiped out the gun, kicked off the five-year hegemony between Chu and Han.

During the dinner, the climax was repeated and the dark tide surged, which concentrated the political game in troubled times.

This is the legendary hongmen banquet that laid the foundation for 400 years. .

Guan Zhong insisted on each other.

At the end of the Qin Dynasty, Chen Sheng and Guangwu rose up, and the old nobles and civilians in the Warring States responded in succession.

48-year-old Liu Bang beheaded the White Snake Uprising, and 24-year-old Xiang Yu followed his uncle Xiang Liang in the crusade against Qin.

Xiang Liang found Xiong Xin, the royal family of Chu, from the folk, and named him Chu Huaiwang.

Chu was elected as the anti-Qin leader, and ordered the soldiers to divide into two ways to fight against Qin. Xiang Yu led the army north to save Zhao, and Liu Bang marched west to Guanzhong.

Chu Huaiwang also agreed with the generals that whoever enters Hangu Pass first is the Guanzhong King.

Guanzhong is the hometown of Qin, west of Hangu Pass. After Qin destroyed the Six Kingdoms, all the treasures and beauties of the Seven Heroes of the Warring States were in Guanzhong.

Liu bang's army took the lead in entering the customs. He listened to the advice of counselors Fan Kuai and Sean, and refused to live in a luxurious palace and keep away from treasures and beautiful women.

Commended by Xiang Yu? Father? Fan Zeng saw at a glance that Liu Bang, who had been greedy for money and lustful, did not touch treasures and beauties now, and his ambition was not small.

In order to win people's hearts, Liu Bang showed great self-control, which shows that Liu Bang has a firm will and great ambition.

Liu bang also agreed with Guanzhong people on three laws: the murderer should be put to death, the injured person should make amends and the thief should be convicted.

This made him warmly supported by the people.

Liu bang

But Liu Bang made a mistake, that is, blocking the Hangu Pass.

When Xiang Yu marched all the way from Handan, Hebei Province to Hanguguan on the border of Qin State, he found that soldiers were holding him hostage and wouldn't let him in. Xiang Yu flew into a rage.

What are you angry about?

In order to save Zhao, Xiang Yu burned his bridges. He wiped out the main army of Qin with unparalleled bravery in the Battle of Julu, but Liu Bang entered the customs first and enjoyed the success.

Mr. Ji Ma Cao Wu Shang sent a message to Xiang Yu around Liu Bang, saying? Liu Bang wanted to be the king of Guanzhong, let Zi Ying, the king of Qin, be the phase, and enjoy all the treasures for himself. ?

Xiang Yu was even more angry and directly ordered:? Tomorrow, the whole army will eat and drink enough to defeat Liu Bang's army! ?

At that time, Xiang Yu had four hundred thousand soldiers in Xinfeng Hongmen; Liu Bangbing hundred thousand, on the bully. Only 40 miles, the strength is very different.

When the two armies contend, Liu Bang will fail.

This would have been beneficial to Xiang Yu's decision. But it was not implemented in the end.

Only because the decision is based on Xiang Yu's anger, not a thoughtful judgment.

If we can consider it wisely, the correct decision of the war will not be easily given up.

The ancients said that there must be calmness in every major event.

In the face of great opportunities, we should not be influenced by emotions, but should analyze and deal with them as calmly as possible.

Keep a low profile and turn smoke into smoke.

Personality is influenced by emotions, and decision makers lack the basis for thinking, so they will hesitate repeatedly.

Overnight, the original explosive rhetoric turned into an undercurrent banquet.

The direct pusher is Xiang Yu's brother-in-law Xiang Bo.

Xiang Bo heard that Xiang Yu was going to attack Liu Bang's army, and his rescuer Sean was in Liu Bang's army, so Xiang Bo rode to see Sean overnight and told him to leave quickly.

Sean saw at a glance that Xiang Bo was a loyal man, so he told Xiang Bo that he had come to escort Liu Bang to see korean king. Now something is going to happen to Liu Bang, and it is disloyal to escape. He must tell Liu Bang.

So Sean told Liu Bang what Xiang Bo said.

After Liu Bang, aged 5 1 year, consulted Sean and invited him to join Xiang Bo, he treated Xiang Bo as a brother. At first, he met Xiang Bo as his children's in-laws. And ask Xiang Bo to tell Xiang Yu that he dare not betray Wang Xiang.

Liu Bang's extraordinary communication skills and superior means of winning people's hearts enable him to form an interest alliance that is beneficial to him at the fastest speed.

And the premise of all this is his caution and calmness.

Xiang Bo completely believed Liu Bang and asked him to personally explain to Xiang Yu early tomorrow morning.

Back in the army, Xiang Bo told Xiang Yu what Liu Bang said and told Xiang Yu to treat Liu Bang well.

Did Wang Xiang say yes? , and gave a banquet in hongmen.

Xiang Yu

Xiang Bo leaked important military secrets and put personal affairs above collective interests, but Xiang Yu didn't blame him.

And because of a few words, I won't send troops, which shows that Xiang Yu is not decisive enough.

Liu Bang's attitude shows foresight and resourcefulness.

Liu Bang has ambitions for Wang Guanzhong, and Xiang Yu is destined to be his enemy.

But the strength is not as good as Xiang Yu's, and Liu Bang must survive first, so he temporarily adopted a plan to hide his strength and carry on.

A clear goal, a strong will, a mature wrist, and a stable mentality are all advantages for Liu Bang to compete for the king.

At the turning point of life, only with foresight, ability to assess the situation, and firm will to turn lofty goals into concrete and effective actions can we master the initiative.

It can be said that Xiang Yu was defeated before the banquet of the Hongmen.

Looking for a life in a crisis

The next day, Liu Bang took a hundred followers to dinner.

At the banquet, Liu Bang explained to Xiang Yu with great public relations skills. The general and I joined forces to attack Qin. The general hit Hebei and I hit Henan.

I didn't expect to enter the customs first and see you here again. There are little people playing us now, otherwise there would be no bad blood between you and me. ?

Xiang can't wait to say: this is all provoked by Sajima and Cao's side. Otherwise, how could I do this? ?

Xiang Yu seems to have no brains in front of the wily Liu Bang.

Liu Bang can make full use of Xiang Bo around Xiang Yu, but Xiang Yu easily betrayed Cao Wushang around Liu Bang, which directly led to? Pei Gong wants an army, but what about Cao? The ending.

Two people judge each other by wisdom.

During the dinner, Fan Zeng kept winking at Xiang Yu, and repeatedly signaled Xiang Yu with Yu Jue.

Jue homophonic. This is Fan Zeng's advice to Xiang Yu, asking him to make a decisive decision and kill Liu Bang at once. However, Xiang Yu pretended not to see it.

Foresighted Fan Zeng refused to miss the opportunity to kill Liu Bang.

Fan Zeng took part in finding Xiang Zhuang, let him dance the sword at the dinner and assassinate Liu Bang.

So, Xiang Zhuang staged the famous? Xiang Zhuang's sword dance is intended to be Pei Gong? .

During the dinner, it was Xiang Bo, the son and daughter he had just made friends with, who saved Liu Bang. Xiang Bo also drew his sword and danced, always protecting Liu Bang with his body.

Sean found Fan Kuai with the help of Xiang Bo.

When Fan Kuai broke into the military gate, he stared at Wang Xiang with big eyes and his hair stood on end.

Xiang Yu saw his burly image and said, What a brave man! Give him a glass of wine. ?

Fan Kuai swallowed it in one gulp. Xiang Yu said again:? Give him a pig leg! ?

Fan Kuai put the pig's thigh on the shield and cut off large pieces of meat with his sword.

Xiang Yu added:? Brave people! Can I have another drink? ?

Fan Kuai took the opportunity to say: After Liu Bang entered the customs, his treasures did not dare to move, just waiting for you.

He worked hard, but it didn't pay off. Instead, you listened to the slanderers of the villains and tried to kill those who made meritorious deeds. ?

Fan Kuai's words made Xiang Yu speechless.

At the hongmen banquet, Fan Zeng and Xiang Zhuang tried to kill liu bang, but xiang yu didn't help or stop him.

Sean, Fan Kuai, Xiang Bo, etc. are trying their best to save Liu Bang while he is playing his role of employing people.

These three are outstanding people, and I can use them, so I win the world.

Xiang Yu has a Fan Zeng that can't be used, so he was captured for me. ?

Liu bang is good at employing people, which is not only the key to Liu bang's success in the world, but also the key to Liu bang's preservation at the Hongmen banquet.

Liu Bang can not only decisively adopt the counselor's correct advice, but also make the plan more complete with wisdom.

Decide success or failure at will.

At the end of the hongmen banquet, Fan Kuai broke in, leaving Xiangzhuang sword at a loss. Liu bangyi? Go to the bathroom? Leave in the name of.

Liu Bang called Fan Kuai out and said, I want to hurry, but I haven't said goodbye to Wang Xiang yet. What should I do?

Fan Kuai said? Don't care about details when doing big things, and don't care about red tape when giving big gifts.

Now others are knives and chopping boards, and you are fish and meat to be slaughtered on the chopping board. Why did you leave? ?

Liu Bang felt that Fan Kuai's words were very reasonable, so he took good advice and arranged an orderly retreat for himself.

In order not to startle him, Liu Bang left hundreds of his followers and let four guards hold swords for protection. And left Sean to continue public relations.

Liu Bang carefully told Sean:? Guess I have probably returned to the army, and then go in and tell Xiang Yu. ?

Zhang thought that Liu Bang had returned to the team and apologized to him. According to Liu Bang's instructions, he presented a pair of white walls to Xiang Yu and a pair of jade buckets to Fan Zeng.

Xiang Yu saw that only Sean saluted, so he asked: Where is Liu Bang? ?

Sean said? I heard that the king was going to blame him (for his bad drinking). He left alone and has now returned to the army. ?

Xiang Yu accepted the white wall and put it on the seat.

Fan Zeng threw the jade bucket on the ground, smashed it with his sword, and said bitterly? Alas, this boy (Xiang Yu) is not worth pursuing with him! It must be Liu Bang who will win the king's world in the future. We are all going to be captured by him! ?

The different attitudes of Xiang Yu and Fan Zeng reflected their different judgments on the situation of the Hongmen Banquet.

Until now, Xiang Yu has not seen this historical turning point.

Since then, the Hongmen Banquet started the five-year war between Chu and Han, and also laid the groundwork for the four hundred years of the Han Dynasty.

Xiang Yu was all-powerful in his life. After more than 70 wars, it was almost invincible. Brave as he was, he lost everything in the end.

His failure lies in the limitation of his character.

He lacked decisive and steady temperament, and after being bewitched by words, he became more indecisive and headstrong, unable to recognize the opportunity and adopt good words, and finally let the enemy go. Cause a lifetime of regret.

Liu bang, who was born in humble origins, won the world with a cloth and a sword by virtue of his flexible personality at the hongmen banquet.

Since the hongmen banquet, liu bang has already put down his face, made his children's in-laws with Xiang Bo as his brother's gift, and apologized to xiang yu.

Although it is disgraceful to escape by going to the toilet, it is a matter of life and death and the situation is changing rapidly. Liu Bang was informal, endured humiliation with a tough temperament, accepted good words with a broad mind, and finally got rid of the predicament wholeheartedly.

The game of winning and losing is always dangerous. One careless move will lose the game.

Personality is invisibly hidden in all aspects of life, and it is the small details that converge into personal charm and boldness of vision.

Anyone who can achieve great things has a matching character strengths.

Cultivating a stronger character strengths will enable us to go higher and further.