First, avoid talking about interests with colleagues.
In the workplace, you must remember that you and your colleagues just do things together, do a good job, and talk too much about your feelings and interests with your colleagues. He may betray you at any time, because neither you nor your colleagues are the objects of love. Many people suffer from this loss, thinking about my colleague's number, so that colleagues can get some benefits from the loopholes in the company system and want to deepen their personal feelings with colleagues. Therefore, colleagues often betray you mercilessly at critical times.
Second, don't collude with colleagues, for better or worse.
Many people especially believe that colleagues who deal with themselves every day, when there are things that need to be done in collusion, such as talking to the leaders or forcing them to make some compromises. Colleagues who have some good things will come to you and collude with you to achieve their goals in other traditional colleagues. Bian Xiao is here to tell you, whether it is good or bad, don't participate. After the incident was exposed, the consequences were very serious.
Third, resolutely do not harm others with colleagues.
In the workplace, whether it is a good person or a bad person, what everyone hates most is people who harm others and themselves. If others have some contradictions with you, it is ok to take some appropriate revenge yourself. The most taboo is to hurt people with colleagues. In this process, you seem to be smart, but in the end you are often shot by others and snickered behind your back. This is called the inevitable result of hurting people's hearts.
If you want to be friends with your colleagues, wait until you leave your job.
If you think some colleagues can really be bosom friends and friends, wait until after you leave, because your judgment in your present position is often wrong. Only when there is no interest and competition between you, your feelings and friendship will be true, and your judgment at that time will be referential, otherwise it will be an illusion in nine cases.
If you stick to these bottom lines, then you will certainly live well in the workplace.