First, what happened when the old leader gave this opportunity?
As an old leader, you may know him well. Well, do you know the reason why he resigned? What is this? What is this person's personality like? How does he treat his team members? The company he goes to is unreliable, so if you ask to know about his company, if he really wants you to go, he will definitely accept it, so go and understand it. After staying for a day or two, I think I can see a lot of things, that is to say, whether it's past leaders or unfamiliar people, you should know in detail in this case, so don't be embarrassed.
After all, if the salary is three or four times higher, you should think about why, because this is an unusual situation, and you should judge his authenticity and ability to pay, because you are now working stably in state-owned enterprises, so after that, don't be attracted by this verbal commitment. It depends on the specific situation and go and have a look.
Second, on this basis, if you feel ok, then communicate with your family.
Everyone has their own considerations, so your family and your wife also have their considerations. Many people don't want to leave their families. After all, having children and old people is a familiar environment. At this time, you need to do something with him called * * * building a vision and * * * making sure that everyone has better expectations? Do you have a better idea?
At this time, as long as you give her strong confidence and prospect for the future, I believe this is not a problem.
But you should also do one thing well, and keep good communication and care with your family while going to work. It is not a reasonable reason to say that the contradiction between career and family needs to be sacrificed on the one hand.
Third, ask your heart.
In fact, this third point is the most critical. What do you want? be what you wanna be Do you want to take a chance, dare to take the risk?
I believe that even if this opportunity finally fails, if you have the ability, you are not afraid to find a better job than now.
You know, the worst time is many times better than when you first started working many years ago.
So if this opportunity is really like what you described, and you really judge and watch it, I think it's best to do it boldly.
But khufu still suggests that you put aside your feelings, your shyness, and your emotional factors that seem to worry that others think you don't trust him. Take a leave of absence for two days to see if this is an opportunity with personal feelings. After all, you are responsible for your family and yourself.
Good luck.