From Yu Zhen, who is gentle and graceful, to Tigress, from Xiang Ersao, who complains about her bad karma, to her humorous menstruation, from party member Erleng, who is a nobody at the bottom, to Wu Zetian, who lives in the imperial court, from her elegant second grandmother in the big house, to the northwest old lady in rural Lanzhou.
She is also foreign and native, beautiful and ugly, vulgar and elegant, and can do any role.
However, her married life is ups and downs, and she has been married three times. The first two divorces were earth-shattering and scarred.
Especially the director Sun Tianxiang, her first husband, caused great harm to her.
Later, Gaowa Siqin finally married her husband Chen Liangsheng and lived a happy life, but all this came to an abrupt end with Chen Liangsheng's death.
However, Sun Tianxiang remarried, was paralyzed in prison and lived a miserable life in his later years. In the most difficult time, his son Sun Tie took care of him, and Gaowa Siqin also paid for his treatment, which was very touching.
1950, Gaowa Siqin was born into a military family. Unfortunately, her father died of illness when she was 5 years old, and the family had a hard time.
In order to support three children, my mother had to go back to Inner Mongolia to be a court clerk, and later remarried them. Since then, Gaowa Siqin's life has completely changed.
Although the stepfather is very kind to them and provides them with opportunities to go to school, the stepfather and mother are very busy at work and can't take care of so many children.
As the oldest child, her mother left her at her grandmother's house, and Siqin Gaowa lived without her father and mother. At first, she sat on the stone bench in front of her grandmother's house every day, waiting for her mother to pick her up, eager to see her, but her mother never appeared.
Fortunately, grandma is very kind to her, and she is a woman who can sing and dance. After finishing farm work, she taught Gaowa Siqin to sing and dance.
Gaowa Siqin is very talented. As soon as her grandmother taught her, she learned. When she grew up, she became the literary backbone of the school. She often goes out to participate in dance competitions on behalf of the school and has won numerous awards. She is famous for her bowl dancing.
/kloc-at the age of 0/5, he was selected as a dancer and announcer in Inner Mongolia Song and Dance Troupe with a good image.
It was here that she met her first husband Sun Tianxiang.
Sun Tianda is nine years old and joined the League several years earlier than her. At that time, he had become the director of the league and was very talented.
In addition, his father died early, and the same life experience made him feel even more sad about Gaowa Siqin.
Gaowa Siqin noticed this beautiful little girl as soon as she joined the league, and always took care of her as a senior.
I often bring her some delicious snacks, teach her how to be a person, how to get along with colleagues, point out her shortcomings in dancing, and make her progress quickly.
Gaowa Siqin, who had no father since childhood, found the taste of fatherly love in him, and she fell deeply into it.
She thinks that Sun Tianxiang has a fatherly brilliance, and completely ignores some of his shortcomings, such as his bad temper when rehearsing the program. As soon as an actor doesn't perform well, he immediately opens his mouth to curse.
In her view, all these prove that Sun Tian is more rigorous in his work.
1968, 27-year-old Sun Tianxiang proposed to 18-year-old Gaowa Siqin. Gaowa Siqin married the leader without even informing her parents. She felt that she was an adult and completely in control of her life, but she fell into a big pit.
The following year, his daughter Sun Dan was born, but Sun Tianxiang exposed the essence. First of all, he kept a close watch on Gaowa Siqin. No matter where he went, no matter who he went, he had to report to him, and he could only go with his consent.
Even in the performance of the group, she has to take care of it, not dancing with men, not revealing costumes, not spending the night outside,
Gaowa Siqin's colleagues think this man is terrible, but Gaowa Siqin, who has never been taken care of by his parents since childhood, thinks it is her husband's love and enjoys it very much.
But after the daughter was born, this sweetness was gone. Sun Tian was very dissatisfied with Gaowa Siqin's daughter. As long as she drinks or gets angry outside, she will take it out on Gaowa Siqin and call names, which is terrible.
One day, Sun Tianxiang came back from the outside. When he saw Gaowa Siqin playing with his daughter, he raised his hand and gave Gaowa Siqin a slap in the face. Then he swore, "What's the use of marrying you back?"
Gaowa Siqin covered her burning face with tears and said with grievances, "We have only been married for three years. At first, you said to be busy with work and have another son."
Fortunately, she didn't defend herself. Hearing this, Sun Tianxiang dared to defend himself because he could not have a son.
He spirit not dozen 1 come, ruthlessly seized Gaowa Siqin's hair, knocked her head on the ground, bad to ruthlessly say:
"I let you say! I told you to talk! Don't you dare say me! I see you say it again! "
Gaowa Siqin had to beg for mercy and shouted, "Don't dare, let me go, my head hurts!"
Sun Tianxiang let go, and Gaowa Siqin touched the blood on his forehead and cried, "I can't live this day!"
At this time, Sun Tianxiang suddenly changed. He knelt down crying, grabbed Gaowa Siqin's hand and said regretfully, "I'm sorry, I don't know what happened. How can I hit you? " I was wrong, I was wrong, you hit me! "
Gaowa Siqin withdrew his hand, and Sun Tianxiang hurried to get the potion to deal with the wound on Gaowa Siqin's forehead. At that moment, Gaowa Siqin was both sad and wronged. She remembered the sweetness of two people together before, and she really couldn't figure it out. How did he suddenly become a different person?
After this time, Gaowa Siqin's mother found out and suggested that her daughter get a divorce, but Gaowa Siqin looked at her daughter Sun Dan and remembered the days when she had no father and mother when she was a child. She felt sorry for the divorced child. She remembered her husband's kindness and decided to give him another chance.
Later, Sun Tianxiang really changed a lot. He treats Gaowa Siqin and his daughter better than before. Not only did he seldom drink, but he also gave all the money he earned to their mother and daughter, so that they could go out to buy clothes and do housework at home.
The family was happy again. Gaowa Siqin felt guilty for not having a son, so she took the initiative to stop her pregnancy work and soon gave birth to her son Sun Tie.
Sun Tianxiang was very happy after his son was born. He held the child in his arms and kissed him, unwilling to let go. Gaowa Siqin also smiled. She thinks the future is full of good days.
But I didn't expect Sun Tianxiang's temper to be more and more violent, even worse than before. Sometimes, without saying a word to her heart, Sun Tianxiang's fist fell and punched Gaowa Siqin in the chest, making her speechless with pain.
At this time, it really understood that there were only zero and countless domestic violence, and she finally put forward a divorce to Sun Tianxiang categorically.
After many twists and turns, Sun Tianxiang agreed, but he asked to take his son Sun Tie away, and his daughter Sun Dan followed Gaowa Siqin. Although Gaowa Siqin couldn't bear to be separated from her 2-year-old son, there was nothing he could do, which became the reason why his son later hated her.
After the divorce, Gaowa Siqin got married again soon, this time even more outrageous.
Probably because she has never been loved since she was a child, she still doesn't understand what is right love and how to treat pain.
I can only use a new relationship to save my injured self, as if I could cure myself.
When Gaowa Siqin took part in filming for the first time, he met Daur actor Ao Chen Xing.
At that time, in Aoxingchen's mind, Gaowa Siqin was the goddess. He has heard of her fame for a long time, and he feels excited to cooperate with her.
But I didn't expect Gaowa Siqin to have a good impression on him. She thought this young man was handsome and elegant, so she volunteered to tell him.
Ao Chenxing was flattered. He couldn't believe that Gaowa Siqin would consider himself a little actor.
Gaowa Siqin opened her heart to him and said, "I had a failed marriage. My ex-husband has a bad temper and often hits people. I've been watching you for a long time. You are a very patient and polite person, just what I want most. I am eager for a home. "
Ao Chenxing was moved by her frankness, and the two officially began to associate. After the filming, Gaowa Siqin took the initiative to write to him, expressing his desire to get married.
Ao Chenxing was very happy and told his parents, but they strongly opposed it. They think that Gaowa Siqin is older than him, divorced and has a child, and he is not worthy of his son.
However, Ao Chenxing, who is deeply in love, doesn't care. He said to Gaowa Siqin, "I love you and I will accept everything from you."
After Gaowa Siqin divorced, they got married and lived a happy life.
At first, Ao Chenxing was really good to Gaowa Siqin and Sun Dan. At the same time, Gaowa Siqin officially appeared in the film anxious to return.
The response of this film was very good, and Gaowa Siqin was admitted to Bayi Studio, which was highly praised.
On the other hand, Ao Xingchen stayed where she was, still working as a little actor, sometimes moving props, and cooking for Gaowa Siqin and her daughter at home. After a long time, he is inevitably depressed.
What makes him more depressed is that Gaowa Siqin's heart is all about her career, and she doesn't want children at all, while Ao Xingchen and her parents are very anxious and eager to have a child of her own.
On this matter, Aohe had a great controversy. Gaowa Siqin feels that her career is on the rise and her family depends on her to make money. How can she stop to have a baby?
But just then, something unfortunate happened. Gaowa Siqin is pregnant.
But for the rare opportunity at that time, Gaowa Siqin knocked out Ao Xingchen.
When Mr. Chen Xing learned, he was extremely angry and disappointed with Gaowa Siqin, and finally filed for divorce.
Gaowa Siqin is also very sad, but love is not her only thing at this time.
She has a career in Ran Ran and a daughter. Sure enough, if a woman has the ability, even if she is divorced, she will not be hurt too much.
Just as Gaowa Siqin was getting married, Sun Tianxiang, at the urging of his family, soon met an ordinary person and remarried.
Sun Tie called her "Aunt Fang", but after marriage, Aunt Fang couldn't stand her father's violent temper and was also a short temper. The two often quarrel and even fight. Sun Tie was very scared. When they fight and throw things everywhere, Sun Tie can only hide under the table shivering.
Every time in the dead of night, he misses his mother very much, but her mother hardly comes to see him, and she is married again. After a long time, this kind of miss slowly turned into hate.
1985, Aunt Fang and Sun Tianxiang quarreled again. This time, Sun Tianxiang was so angry that he picked up the fruit knife on the table and stabbed Fang Ayi.
With Aunt Fang's screams, she fell in a pool of blood. Later, Sun Tianxiang was sentenced to five years. At this time, Sun Tiecai 13 years old.
After Sun Tianxiang went in, Aunt Fang also divorced him. Grandma is too old to take care of Sun Tie, and there is no news from her mother. Sun Tie has no parents and has nowhere to go after graduating from junior high school. He finally chose to drop out of school to work in Shenzhen.
Before leaving, grandma gave Sun Tie only 100 yuan, touched his head and said, "Son, your fate is too bad, but grandma can't help it. You have no food with grandma, take care of yourself. "
Sun Tie took the money and got on the bus to Shenzhen. When the bus started, grandma burst into tears and her white hair was flying in the wind.
I obviously have a star mother, but she ignored herself and got married for the third time. Now the whole family is falling apart. She caused all this. He swore silently in his heart: I will never forgive her!
He suffered a lot in Sun Tie. Because he is young, he can only do the lowest-level jobs, such as waiter, security guard and doorman. There is no money to rent a house, so he can only live in the dormitory arranged by the company. When he lost his job, he had to spend the night under the bridge.
Once he had a fever of 40 degrees, and the whole person was confused, but he had no money to go to the hospital and had to carry it hard. Finally, a kind-hearted man lent him 600 yuan to keep him alive.
At this time, my star mother finally remembered herself.
A few years ago, Gaowa Siqin was introduced to get married for the third time, this time by Swiss Chinese musician Chen Liangsheng.
At that time, Gaowa Siqin had already won the Golden Rooster Award and the Best Actress Hundred Flowers Award with Tigress in Camel Xiangzi, and also won the Golden Award with Time flies. The film contract continued and her social status continued to rise.
After becoming famous, rich and married, Gaowa Siqin couldn't help thinking of his son Sun Tie.
After learning that he was working in Shenzhen, Gaowa Siqin went to see him and wanted to recognize him, but Sun Tie refused to see her. Sun Tie looked at her like a stranger. He didn't want to say a word to her, so he just threw away the money she gave him.
Gaowa Siqin felt sorry for her son. In order to ease the relationship with her son, she opened a company in Shenzhen and wanted to give it to her son, but Sun Tie would rather be unemployed and live under the bridge than work in her company.
Due to poor management, the company closed down in a few years. Later, Sun Tianxiang was released from prison. Five years in prison made his health very bad. Sun Tie packed his bags and went back to take care of him.
However, the family's life is stretched. Sun Tie has no skills, can't find a good job, and his father is in poor health and can't integrate into society. For the family, Sun Tie bowed to his mother for the first time and borrowed 30,000 yuan to open a restaurant.
But two years later, the restaurant closed down. Gaowa Siqin felt that his son could not survive without education, so he gave her a sum of money to study in Switzerland, so that he could often see her when he lived in Switzerland.
But in order to escape from her clutches, Sun Tie went to Belgium with the money, and Gaowa Siqin was very sad.
After returning from studying abroad, Sun Tie is still adrift. Until 200 1, Gaowa Siqin was injured while filming "The Big House Gate". Sun Dan came back from abroad to take care of her. Seeing that his brother was so indifferent to his mother, Sun Dan felt obliged to ease their relationship.
So Sun Dan asked Sun Tie out, opened his heart to chat with him, told him everything about this year, and took out four diaries written by his mother, each page of which was full of thoughts and concerns about his son.
In order to create good living conditions for them, mother filmed very hard. No matter how dangerous the scene was, she went into battle in person. This time she was not only injured, but also scarred all over.
Riding alone has caused three falls, one head swelling, the second concussion and the third coccyx fracture.
Sun Tie was shocked when he heard this. He always thought that his mother was a big star and it was easy to make money. I didn't expect so much sadness behind her.
Sun Dan added, "I know you hate your mother, but she really has unspeakable difficulties. You were young, and there were some things you might not understand. I saw with my own eyes how painful my mother was. She has been struggling for years, and finally wants to take you back when life is better. However, you haven't forgiven him for more than ten years. Can't you warm your heart for more than ten years? "
Looking at his mother's diary, Sun Tie bowed his head and cried. He knew that he had forgiven his mother, but he always wanted to punish her with indifference. Now he knows that he not only punished his mother, but also punished himself.
From then on, Sun Tie and Gaowa Siqin finally untied the knot. With the help of his mother, he also entered the entertainment circle and started filming.
After living with his mother, he realized how difficult her life was and how much responsibility he had to bear. In addition to taking care of the children, he has to help five younger brothers and sisters, and at the same time, he has to support his mother and stepfather. The death of stepfather has become an eternal pain in her heart.
Gaowa Siqin's mother and stepfather are old and in poor health, so they want to come to Beijing for treatment.
At that time, she was about to go around promoting the luck of Empress Dowager Cixi, so she entrusted one of her good sisters to find a bed in the Gao Qian ward of a hospital, and let them live there, have a physical examination and rest for two months.
Later, the hospital gave the stepfather a general examination and said it was hemorrhoids, and there was no problem. He lived there for a while and then returned to Inner Mongolia.
As a result, my stepfather's condition suddenly deteriorated after I went back. I went to the local hospital in Inner Mongolia for a check-up. It turned out to be "rectal cancer", which is already advanced.
Gaowa Siqin was very angry. Later, she learned that doctors and nurses in Gao Qian ward had bad attitudes. When Gaowa Siqin went to see them, his attitude was much better. When I left, I had a bad attitude towards the old man and was beaten.
But now I don't know who the doctor was, and I can't find it. The stepfather only left a sentence: "Forget it, it's already like this, don't look for it" and closed his eyes forever.
This matter has become a permanent pain in Gaowa Siqin's heart. She blamed herself for losing her life because of her stepfather. If she had found it earlier, she might have been cured.
Since then, she has been taking her mother with her, even taking part in activities, and is more tolerant of life.
In 2002, Sun Tianxiang had a sudden cerebral infarction. Although he was rescued, he was paralyzed forever and took a lot of medicine every day.
Sun Tie's income is not much, and his family will soon be stretched to the limit. When Gaowa Siqin learned this, he secretly gave Sun Tie money to buy medicine for his father.
Knowing the truth, Sun Tianxiang couldn't wait to find a crack in the ground, and he realized how wrong he was and what a good wife he missed.
Unfortunately, the past can never be redeemed, and his twilight years can only be spent in a wheelchair.
On February 28th, 2022, 89-year-old Chen Liangsheng also passed away. This time, Gaowa Siqin moved on.
Life has been ups and downs for decades, and people can only rely on themselves at any time. After all, people have to get along with themselves, and it is the greatest happiness to spend the rest of their lives quietly with their children.