People talk behind my back about how I became like this. What do you mean I look arrogant?

Generally speaking, this must not be a good word, either it looks fierce or it looks ugly.

However, it is impolite to talk about other people's looks behind their backs, so you don't have to pay too much attention to what they say. Everyone has a different distinction between beauty and ugliness, so maybe this person doesn't like you, but others will like you. So just ignore it.