Seven years ago, he stood on the stage of "career" for the first time as the vice president of Light Media Division. Many people praised him for his handsome young appearance. Persistent spirit and his true nature.
He will cry on the stage because of the unfortunate family background and life experience of job seekers;
He will argue with other talents to support a job seeker, just to give him another chance;
Recalling the once unbearable work experience, he will also cry;
This time, what attracted me was his conversation with a job seeker.
He has always been a fan of Liu Tong. From Liu Tong's first three books whose youth is not confused, your loneliness is defeated, to his latest book, I will wait for you in the future, he followed his story all the way.
The target company and position of his job search this time are: light media host.
But unfortunately, after several rounds of skill inspection and interaction, people don't think he is suitable for this position.
During this period, Liu Tong shared his experience in Hunan Satellite TV. He used to be a location host, but later everyone thought his hosting was particularly poor. After more than ten years, he has been focusing on doing it behind the scenes.
Through continuous accumulation and precipitation, he not only won the love of well-known female presenters such as Ada and Iola.
Finally, he also stood on the stage of "going to work", so he suggested that job seekers should start behind the scenes first.
What impressed me the most was what the job seeker said: I would rather be a real person than an excellent one. If you don't get what you want for a while, maybe it's time to tell you that you have to prepare longer, become more real and then become better, maybe it's also a kind of growth.
I have been paying attention to Liu Tong, because in my cognition, he is a persistent, hardworking and sincere person.
He mentioned three hurdles in his life.
Before the book was published, Liu Tong silently insisted on writing a book 10.
After graduating from college, he contributed to many publishing houses, but all of them fell into the sea. Later, he heard that there was a big publishing house in Wu Hanyou, so he took the train from Changsha to Wuhan. When he first came in to talk to the editor, the man only said three words: put it there. When he saw a thick layer of manuscript in it, he knew that if the manuscript was put there, it would mean there would never be a chance.
Later, he came out of the newspaper office, and it was raining outside. I don't know whether God feels sorry for him or he feels wronged. He was crying in the rain.
He said: It's like a dream you've been holding on to for a long time, but in the end, you didn't get the respect you deserved, and you had a strong sense of frustration.
If you could have said to yourself at that time: He said: I think you are fine.
The second time, when he found that his left eyebrow and hair on the back of his head were almost gone because of overtime all the year round, he decided to resign from Hunan Satellite TV because he was worried about his health.
So he decided to take the postgraduate entrance examination. When he paid the rent and bought a book for the postgraduate entrance examination, he found that his life was only 300 yuan. He asked himself: Is this the life I want?
He said that it was very uncomfortable and tortured during that time.
Postgraduate entrance examination is unknown;
The future is bleak;
There is only the last 300 yuan left in life.
If you could say a word to yourself at that time, thank you for taking it seriously. Now that I think about it, many things in life are not called things.
The third time he decided to go to Beijing. At that time, he was just 24 years old. On his first day at work, two leaders of the company said to his immediate leader in front of him: If you really want to cheat the company, you can pull two street sweepers directly from the street. Why do you want a child to be in charge of our program?
He said it was very dark and very angry. You can't see the future, even if you cry, no one will care about your feelings. But he held back.
Because if he resigns, he won't know where to live next month.
After a year of persistence, he finally resigned. He told his boss the truth: it's not that he doesn't love the company, but that he really doesn't like people who don't respect their colleagues. A company that doesn't respect its colleagues will have no future development.
10 years later, Liu Tong is still in this industry, but this company has long since disappeared without a trace.
I met a similar situation in my first year in Shanghai.
Because of lack of work experience, in order to improve my ability better and faster, as long as there is a task within the company, I will be the first to rush in.
Because it is a blank sheet of paper, I don't have much concept of job responsibilities.
When my leader gave me the result because of my lack of experience and ability, I found:
The workplace never believes in tears, and leaders only look at the results. It is not enough to have a cavity of blood and enthusiasm.
When you accept this task, you will be responsible for it to the end, whether it is good or bad.
My saddest time: I often secretly go to the toilet to cry, but I won't tell anyone.
When everyone is playing, watching TV and chatting at work.
I still work hard. Because I always believe that there is nothing wrong with my persistence, my efforts and my enthusiasm. I just need to constantly improve my ability and grasp the appropriate limits in the workplace, which is very important.
Later, this company no longer exists.
However, I met a very good company at the next intersection. And what they like is exactly what the last company didn't pay so much attention to: that is, no distractions, down-to-earth, serious and generous.
I especially like a passage that Liu Tong said in "I am waiting for you in the future":
Everyone has had such a moment in his life, right? Suddenly, I completely denied myself. I feel that my life has failed, my work has failed, I have never succeeded, and I can't find myself. My future is bleak, and everything is gloomy. It seems that everything I do is wrong, as if someone around me is better than myself. And this time, when it looks the worst, is actually the best time. Because only in this way will you hear the outside world and realize your mistakes.
Fortunately, we met a better self in our work and life.
Finally, I want to say that in our twenties,
Who hasn't had a hard time, bite the bullet;
No one wants to give up this second, but the next second is the moment of persistence;
In our twenties, we should keep the momentum, stubbornness and unconvinced that young people should have.
Because if you don't give in, what can the world do to you?
When was the most difficult moment in your life and how did you overcome it?
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