Heard of a very romantic love story, a man affectionately confessed to the woman he loved:
I am willing to be your little tail and follow you everywhere. In this life, I just want to hold hands with you, enjoy the sunset and bright moon together, walk in the misty rain in the south of the Yangtze River, sing on the vast grassland together, and bathe in the sunshine in Yunnan together. You are like a light, the most brilliant existence in my life. As long as I have you in my life, I will be very happy.
Although I don't know if the couple will have a lifetime of happiness, they did get the sweetness that belonged to them at that time.
For many men, it is not easy to get such sweetness, because in the eyes of many men who don't understand women's minds, women's hearts are like fishing for the moon in the sea, which seems very close, but it is futile to do it.
This is actually the reason why men are eliminated because of the wrong way of expressing love before approaching women.
You know, women are born different from men. It is said that men are rational and women are emotional animals.
In a relationship, what a woman cares about is not how much a man has planned for her, but whether she feels the details that men care about because she loves her.
Because women are cautious and sensitive, they pay more attention to details in their feelings.
Therefore, men must remember that the most irresistible thing for women to communicate with the opposite sex is a man who is "rough and refined".
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Anyone who has watched the TV series Ode to Joy should know that Andy, an elite in the workplace, has experienced two feelings, and the results of these two feelings are completely different.
Andy's first boyfriend, Weiwei, is a man who made a fortune by his own efforts.
It is precisely because of his many years of business experience that he has formed a character that he thinks he can predict all kinds of things.
Based on this, in the process of getting along with Andy, Vivian always decides things between them without Andy's consent.
Sometimes, I will judge Andy's friends arbitrarily by my so-called ability to recognize people, and even say that Andy's best friend is a gold digger and not worth socializing with.
It is also because Wei Wei exposed many contradictions in his relationship with Andy, which eventually led to their parting ways.
Andy's second love has a very happy ending. Andy's second boyfriend, Bao Yifan, is a playboy at first sight, but he can really be said to be "crude in detail" to Andy.
First of all, Bao Yifan will not ignore Andy's ability because of his beautiful appearance, nor will he guess Andy's hobbies and ideas at will.
He will take the time to get to know Andy, treat Andy's friends equally, and choose to respect Andy's opinions anyway, so that Bao Yifan can finally win the beauty, while Wei Wei, who was originally considered as Andy's "soul mate", was struck out.
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This is the best way for a man to completely conquer women, even if every man is partial to reason and handles things harshly.
However, as long as you are willing to spend time emotionally, make the details fine and get the details right, then women will love you more and more.
Get to know women carefully
The first step of "coarse and fine"-that is, let men know women carefully.
When you get along with women, women's preferences or three views of ideas will be reflected in your contact.
And you should carefully observe these things displayed by women, find out the most important point from them, and then focus on breaking them.
When you know a woman well enough to know what she likes and dislikes, you will inadvertently show your understanding of her in the following feelings.
You know, any woman who inadvertently gets a man's considerate care will feel heartbroken.
Respect women's opinions
The second step is to respect women's opinions.
Whether you disagree or you have to make a decision, it is a respect for women to ask for their opinions in advance.
Even if you don't adopt a woman's idea in the end, your business and generous behavior will make her feel comfortable from a woman's point of view.
Good love begins with respect. As long as you respect her, you will get along more and more harmoniously.
Never make a self-righteous decision for a woman, let alone say such perfunctory words as "I don't want you to worry".
You know, once a woman feels neglected by you, her heart will never open for you again.
Start with the details
The third step of "coarse and fine"-everything starts with details.
As the saying goes, "details determine success or failure", and women in love can also see a man's character through details, so you start with details, which is an excellent way for you to brush your goodwill in front of women.
For example, if you go to eat, you must ask the woman to order first;
When walking, let the woman go in and tighten her hands;
When she is sad, you should give her a shoulder to lean on. ...
All these can make a woman feel careful care from your relationship, and naturally her heart will be closely tied to you.
After all, what women want is this feeling of being cared for. A man who can take care of her in detail is irresistible.
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Whether a man can get the most sincere love from a woman depends on the man himself.
Men who are "coarse and fine" are generally men who want to take good care of women from the bottom of their hearts.
So he can take care of women's inner thoughts from many things. Even if the things he faces are subtle, he will not ignore women. Such a man can certainly make women irresistible.
In fact, women are really sensitive creatures, especially emotionally sensitive.
Although she may set many conditions for her other half before meeting the right person, once a man can make her feel that she is really held in the palm of her hand, all the standards will change accordingly.
Just like Andy always thought that between men and women, the soul must be able to produce * * * songs to be together before he met Bao Yifan.
But Bao Yifan let Andy know what true love is with his carefulness, thoughtfulness and tolerance.
What women can't resist is never a few love words, let alone a pledge of eternal love, but meticulous consideration and care.