? Do you agree with me that Su Xiangmao, an IT worker, committed suicide because of his intense work?
Until I saw him get married, I summed up my feelings in one sentence and sat on a roller coaster watching magic stories. The whole incident was particularly cruel.
How shameless XinXin Zhai is to her husband. How did Su Xiangmao choose to end everything with death when there might be a turning point?
Here, I wish the deceased rest in peace. If things are really framed by gangs as reported on the Internet, I believe there will be revenge one day.
Su xiangmao, developer of WePhone. ? Feeling old, I registered as a member on the dating website and got to know XinXin Zhai, thinking that the purpose of both parties was to get married. This marriage must be right. Su Xiangmao, who was miserable, paid the woman about130,000 yuan in money and property before and after marriage. These include houses, cars, watches and bags. Nevertheless, he didn't really know XinXin Zhai, regardless of XinXin Zhai's family, background or even what she was thinking.
Su Xiangmao, after knowing the day of 109, wrote the words that he was persecuted by vicious XinXin Zhai and then committed suicide by jumping off a building.
Su Xiangmao said that not only could he not afford XinXin Zhai's important breakup compensation of100000 yuan, but XinXin Zhai kept looking for various people to threaten him, saying that his software had legal problems, so that his products were taken off the shelves and the company went bankrupt. He especially regrets it. When she found out that XinXin Zhai lied to him that he was not unmarried but divorced, she still chose to believe each other's story and spent 88w reading the divorce agreement provided by the other party.
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Marriage comes and goes quickly. Not only for money, but also for life.
Although Su Xiangmao is plain-looking, he has become a member of the upper class in terms of social achievements. He is not at a disadvantage in the marriage and love market. In order to be convenient and quick, he used dating software to find a wife, and he was too unsure of himself.
A master of computer science from Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications.
When talking about his mother, he told me, "My mother didn't even go to high school. She is very kind to me and I love her very much, but we can't communicate at all. " If I hadn't scored below 90 in every exam when I was a child, she would have beaten me so much that I could be heard howling all over the village. I will never get a scholarship every year when I grow up. "
Su Xiangmao said that he was very sorry for his family and didn't give them much money.
In fact, this aspect reflects that he loves his family as much as this master, but the ties are not close.
The master has reached the age of marriage, because he has been growing up with his mother's denial and has no confidence in himself.
His conditions are not bad. He works in a design institute, with a stable job and many opportunities for further study. But every time I fall in love, I fail.
When he meets a girl he likes, he doesn't dare to confess at all. As long as the girl shows a little negative emotion, he will give up fighting.
In the end, he fell in love, and everything was fine except one thing that he couldn't stand. When a girl is angry, she should buy things to coax her, and when she is not angry, she should buy things to create surprises. You can't save a month's salary like this.
He said, "At this rate, it is impossible to buy a house and get married."
I was surprised and asked him, "Since we don't get along well, why don't we break up?"
He said, "She fits my type. People don't like me."
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People who are not confident that they have implanted their souls, once they get something that meets their requirements, they feel that they have won the grand prize and dare not expect anything else. Brother Su Xiangmao, XinXin Zhai's phrase "I fell in love with you at first sight", jumped into the abyss without looking back.
It's not terrible that you can't tell the truth from the false. The terrible thing is that when you know it's false, there is a voice in your heart saying, trust her once, or you won't even have a chance this time.
I thought it was a life-saving straw that I couldn't bear to put down, but it was actually a rope that was wrapped around my neck more and more tightly.
The neighbor is a single father with a son. The father loves his son very much, but he has a bad temper. Every time a child does something wrong, the sound of his father scolding him makes me want to call the police. Once, I took my daughter out to play, and I happened to see his son squeezing mud in the yard to play. My daughter wants to play, so I'll let them play together. When his father came home from outside, the little boy was very happy and ran over and said, "Dad, look at the turtle I made." His father suddenly hung up the phone fiercely, tugging at his son's arm and saying, "I'm busy now." Don't show me these. Hurry home. " The little boy was dragged home and the tortoise fell to the ground.
A few days later, my daughter saw the little boy let him play with mud in the yard and said, "I can't pinch things with mud." His eyes were particularly tangled and he ran back.
The five-year-old boy's self-confidence and interpersonal skills have been bruised.
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Su Xiangmao was born in a small city, so he didn't have many opportunities to meet all kinds of people. Many students have only fragmentary memories of him. He climbed to the top of the mountain alone like a lonely winner.
There are obvious defects in the way XinXin Zhai and Su Xiangmao get along.
There is a best friend, and her boyfriend have been breaking up, getting back together, breaking up and getting back together.
When we finally got married, we all congratulated her on her success, but on the wedding day, she left tears and said with a microphone, "If we are not together, everything I have paid is zero."
After hearing what she said, I suddenly felt particularly uncomfortable. In this endless love, she has pushed herself to the point where she must get married.
When you are helpless, it is easiest to despair.
Learn to bloom a flower in despair, and any difficulties will be solved.
The best is the worst, and sometimes the worst will become the best.
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