There are many organizations and units. What can I do to ensure that I am not calculated by my colleagues?

For a villain, it refers to a person who uses improper means to achieve his personal goals. My principle is that it is nothing more than three things. If you fight back, you must make up your mind to end up with the other side and fight the villain with ruthless, cunning, despicable and vicious means. You must deal with villains in a meaner way. You can't talk about the way of a gentleman, the way of a villain. The meaner, the more evil and the more useful. Stop fighting back and then stop attacking, and then stop attacking again.

People are complicated. The so-called open fire is easier to hide than open fire, and the positioning of villains is very vague. However, in the workplace, if you do your job well and don't cross the red and yellow line of the company, you can avoid being calculated by a villain.

There are all kinds of people in the workplace, and we inevitably have to deal with them. It is never a satisfactory thing to meet a villain and be remembered by him. How can we not let them be remembered? The following points are for reference:

I'm not serious about my work.

If you are not serious about your work, you will encounter a lot of troubles in the workplace, and at the same time you will be disgusted by your colleagues around you, thus setting obstacles for you. From your point of view, this is the interference of the villain, which makes you feel stressed at work, but in fact it is mostly caused by yourself. If you want to be understood in the workplace, you must show your ability to work. If you insist on becoming a monk every day, people around you will have a worse impression of you.

B: Arrogant.

Although you have a good working ability, your arrogance is also unacceptable to others, but you can't change your personality essence, and you will face more and more problems in your life. Even if you can have different thoughts and abilities in the workplace, you can't hide your lack of personality. People who are too arrogant seem to get no support from more people and only make enemies for themselves.

Thinking jump

What if? Your mind is too jumping. You are very thoughtful in the workplace. Whether it can be realized or not, you impose these ideas on others in the course of your work. Not everyone can accept your idea, so you will attract some people's opposition and encounter a lot of trouble in the workplace. Learning to think from other people's point of view and be more considerate of other people's feelings will make you win more people's love and less villains around you.

D: low emotional intelligence

It's really hard to survive without high EQ in the workplace, and it's easy for you to accuse yourself that EQ is not high enough. It seems that you are a little white girl who has just entered the workplace, or you don't pay much attention to the maintenance of interpersonal relationships, which will make you struggle in the workplace. Learn how to get along with others, do your own work hard and build your own interpersonal circle, so as to gain a foothold in the workplace and not be bullied by others.