Scene: Today, my little child is sick and wants to go home early to take the child to see a doctor. Xiao said to Xiao B next to him, "My baby is ill. Please help me with today's work. Thank you."
Little B said, "OK, OK, you go and see the children, and I'll help you."
After Xiao left, the boss came out after a while, and Xiao B began to say, "Alas, someone went home to take care of the children again, leaving me to work overtime alone."
Coping strategy: the workplace is like a river and lake, and it is accidentally calculated by a villain. It is impossible to prevent villains, so pay more attention to yourself. Usually, you should take the initiative to establish a relationship with your boss, report your work actively, communicate the existing problems, and let the leaders feel your concern and focus on your work. Let the boss know you, and then be more at ease with you.
2. Take low emotional intelligence as true temperament.
Scene: Xiao wears a new skirt to the company. Others say that the clothes are really nice. Little B suddenly said, "Hey, have you gained weight recently?"
I just finished reporting a PPT at the meeting. The boss still approved the plan, and other members of the team felt good. Xiao B suddenly said, "The content is quite good, but your PPT is too ugly."
Xiao was ready to get off work, so he said, "off work." Do you want to go together? " Little B said faintly, "Hey, I have to work overtime, unlike you who married a rich husband."
You can't be angry with such people yet. When you are angry, you should say, I'm kidding you. How can you take it seriously?
Coping strategy: You will only get more and more angry when you go back for a while, but don't argue endlessly, and don't dwell on some words taken out of context or summarized by the other party.
Step 3 gossip
Scene: I like to pry into all kinds of things, but I can't hide all kinds of secrets. I've been gossiping in your ear all day, trying my best to inquire about your family situation and economic strength every day. I can't wait to take your mobile phone away and see how much money is left in Alipay.
Once a colleague's private affairs are known to him, the whole company will know within 24 hours.
"Today, some people wear brand clothes are shanzhai, not genuine. I can see it at a glance. "
"The new intern recently, alas, is the nephew of the district leader, and the relationship can be hard."
Coping strategy: Stay away from ta, listen to these rumors, don't express your thoughts at will, and avoid falling into the mouth of others. If you can't sit still, just say "I have something to do, I have to go first", "The supervisor wants to see me" and "I have to go to the toilet" and leave the scene.