You regret it when you give it to someone else. We all know that opportunities are rare. In our life, some choices can't be made, and some things don't know what the future development is like. The following opportunity gives others regret.
The opportunity was given to others and others regretted it. But it can be made up. Work hard. If you are capable and down-to-earth, it is only a matter of time before the deputy director is yours.
A story about philosophy: giving opportunities to others.
An American woman once said to Lincoln, "Mr. President, you must order the rank of colonel to be awarded to my son. Sir, I'm not asking for forgiveness, but I have the right to do so and I deserve it. Sir, my grandfather fought in Lexington; My father fought in New Orleans. My uncle was the only soldier who didn't escape in the Battle of Brasburg. My husband died in Monterrey. "
Lincoln was a little embarrassed. He thought about it and said to the woman sincerely, "madam, I think your family has done enough for the country." Now it is time to give this opportunity to others. "
Truth:
In the face of this family, it is really unreasonable for people who work hard but rely on their merits to refuse in a serious way; And if promised to her, and does not conform to the system, Lincoln finally coincidentally solved the problem satisfactorily. Not only refused each other, but also avoided hurting the gas.
Give others a chance. Philosophical story
In the cold winter, a seller of steamed bread and a seller of cotton-padded clothes went to a ruined temple to avoid the snow. It's getting late, the steamed bread seller is very cold, and the cotton-padded clothes seller is very hungry, but they all believe that the other party will ask for something from themselves, so no one will speak first.
After a while, the steamed bread seller said, "Have a steamed bread." The cotton-padded clothes seller said, "Put on a cotton-padded clothes."
After a while, the steamed bread seller said, "Another steamed bread." The cotton-padded clothes seller said, "Wear another cotton-padded clothes."
In this way, the steamed bread sellers eat steamed bread one by one, and the cotton-padded clothes sellers wear cotton-padded clothes one by one, and no one wants to ask for help from each other. Finally, the steamed bread seller froze to death, and the cotton-padded clothes seller starved to death.
If others respect me, I will respect others; People love me, I love; When people ask me, I ask; If someone gives it to me, I will give it to others. People who sell steamed bread and cotton-padded clothes pursue such a philosophy of life.
The result of self-appreciation must be self-isolation; Giving others a way is also giving yourself a way; Giving others a chance is also giving yourself a chance.
The opportunity was given to others and others regretted it. 2. Will you give something you can't bear to others? Philosophical stories.
I always think I am a generous person, because I like to give things to others.
I bought new clothes, but I still don't wear them at all after wearing them several times. If I don't like them, I will give them to my cousin. I received many toys and decorations at Christmas and birthday parties. Pick out my favorite and give the rest to others. Many relatives and friends around me have received my small gifts. I think they must like me and thank me.
Father doesn't think so. In his view, this is ostensibly generous, but in fact it is stingy.
I don't think so.
One day, my father took me to visit his boss. They were friends.
The boss's enthusiasm is a little more reserved. Father chatted with him for a while, then got up and left. He turned to his wife and said, "Bring them some apples from home." Father declined politely, but they insisted on giving it.
When I got home, my father and I opened the box and found some crumpled apples inside, which were bigger than duck eggs. I couldn't help shouting, "What a piece of shit! No one wants to throw it! "
"Yes, what the hell! You should always remember this sentence. This is what you get by giving away things you don't like and don't need! " My face turned red with a brush. I remember the second-hand clothes, toys and ornaments I gave to others before. When they went home and opened it, they must have said the same thing.
Father said: "These apples tell us at least two things: First, they were sent by others. If they were bought by themselves, they would not have been kept for so long. Second, they can't eat it. It's a pity to throw it away. They just gave it to us by the way and wanted us to thank them, but the result was just the opposite. "
My father looked at me and continued, "Remember, don't treat others as fools. He will know the value of this thing as well as you. Either don't send it, or give it to others that you think is the best, favorite and most reluctant. "
This sentence that my father said in those days has benefited me for life. Now, I won't give anything to others casually.
Give others a chance and regret. Give others an accidental story.
Michael Critelli is one of the most dazzling star CEOs in American business. He has worked in Binnengbao Company for more than 65,438+00 years and has expanded the company's business many times. Michael thinks it's all because of his own personality, that is, he is always willing to give others another chance.
Michael often uses two examples to illustrate his style of doing things: once, Binnengbao Company wanted to recruit several employees, and he personally took the lead as an examiner. When talking about the sense of responsibility, he took the story of "washing the toilet to make you drink the water inside" in the Japanese workplace as an example, and asked everyone to be responsible, patient and careful in their work. Just as everyone nodded yes, a young man wanted to withdraw his resume and quit the application, just as he was about to leave.
The young man replied, "Everything in the world has its own function, with different functions and different requirements. In fact, cleaning the toilet only needs to remove dirt and odor. If the water in the toilet is washed enough to drink, it is equivalent to cleaning a handful of firewood with skilled standards. Needless to say, there is no reason to waste time. Too long cleaning process will also affect the normal use of the toilet, so I think as long as it is in everything,
Michael felt that the young man had an idea and a position, so he officially hired the young man. A few years later, he became one of the best employees in the company.
Another time, the company wanted to invest in an important project. Michael chose the best partner through bidding. Finally, he took a fancy to a powerful company and decided to meet John, the boss of that company, to discuss specific matters.
One afternoon, Michael called the other person and asked him to come to his office for an interview in half an hour. After waiting for 1 several hours, Mr. John came in urgently. He is short and fat, with red eyes, wearing a gray suit, no tie around his neck, blond hair like weeds, and a sparse beard on his lips. Mr. John blushed and said to Michael, "you are Mr. Michael, aren't you?" My name is John ... ".
Michael was unhappy for a while and tried to find a reason to let him go out. Of course, the intention of cooperation will be terminated, but he thought about it again: "If he has no real talent, how can he run his company so well?" Michael decided to talk to him.
It turns out that Mr. John has been busy with his work for the last 32 hours, just went home to rest an hour ago, and drank some wine before going to sleep as soon as possible. I didn't expect Michael to call him at this time. Unfortunately, his proposal was still in the company, so he got up and went back to the company to get it. ...
Michael was moved on the spot. Faced with such a diligent and responsible boss, what reason does he have to refuse or give up cooperation with him? Their cooperation has been a complete success, and both sides have stepped onto a higher level!
"Giving others a chance is actually giving yourself a chance, which is especially important whether you are managing a company or being a person!" Michael Critelli often shares his success with others in this way.