The word fate is very mysterious and mysterious, and every love story cannot escape this word. Sometimes it is clever and appropriate, but sometimes it is so untimely that it is regrettable. We always say that love is between two people and should not be influenced by other factors, but when we are old and sick, we are so helpless. Can resist the secular, can not be afraid of other people's eyes, but ultimately can not cross the gap between life and death.
"Why can't I be born earlier and meet him in this life earlier?" Wu should have thought of it more than once.
A noble lady met a good doctor.
Wu Sidan was born in a wealthy family during the Republic of China, and his family is very famous in politics and business. His father, Wu Mingyuan, runs a business and is the general manager of Sino-French Industrial Bank. Wu Dingchang, his father and elder brother, entered politics and was then the Secretary-General of Chiang Kai-shek's Presidential Palace.
As an old woman, Wu Sidan was extremely smart since she was a child. After being educated, she added various advantages of being knowledgeable, so Wu Mingyuan liked young girls very much. Maybe God is jealous of this beauty. Wu Sidan suffers from congenital lung disease. Under the medical conditions at that time, although my father used contacts to seek medical treatment everywhere, it had little effect and was difficult to cure. Everything changed until he met a French doctor, Bessie.
What happened next may be a coincidence, but it is more likely to be an act of god. 19 14 In April, Bei Xiye, who had been in China for many years, was transferred from Tianjin to Beijing as a medical officer of the French Embassy in Beijing and also a medical consultant of Yuan Shikai.
After Bei Xiye arrived in Beijing, he bought real estate and settled down, making extensive friends. Every week, he receives a group of friends who are extremely interested in or study oriental culture in the garden of Dongcheng residence, and they talk about new knowledge and exchange research results with each other, which has attracted Wu Mingyuan's attention. Especially after learning about Bei Xiye's medical skills, I took Wu Sidan to Bei Xiye's residence for medical treatment many times, and became friends one after another. Bei's backyard has gradually become a good place for Wu Sidan to recuperate. In the process of medical treatment, she also forged a good friendship with Bei Xiye. At this time, neither of them should have thought that they would be closely linked for life.
Hospital marriage in wartime
In the process of getting along, Bei Xiye discovered Wu Sidan's excellent talent in fine arts, so on his recommendation, Wu Mingyuan chose to let Wu Sidan study in the Fine Arts Department of Fu Jen Catholic University from 1939, and finally Wu Sidan finished his studies at 1942. At the same time, her physical condition has been greatly improved during her study, and her weak body has gradually improved.
Perhaps it was during this period that she buried her love for Bei Xiye. At the same time, Bei Xiye also appreciated Wu Sidan. She was smart and strong.
From 65438 to 0942, the civil war was tight, the domestic medical level was extremely poor, and medical equipment and medicines were scarce. Bei Xiye insisted on carrying forward the humanitarian spirit and tried his best to give China great help in medicine. Although he was nearly seventy years old, he actively rescued China soldiers, risked his life to send medicines and equipment to various places, and even directly transformed his residence into a wartime hospital to receive the wounded. He was called "French Bethune" by the people at that time.
When Wu Sidan heard about it after graduation, she was infected by the spirit of Bei Xiye, and her feelings for Bei Xiye became stronger and stronger. In order to really help Bei Xiye, she resolutely gave up the original artistic path, actively studied, quickly mastered the basic medical skills, and eventually became Bei Xiye's assistant.
During the period of 1947, Beshier suffered from physical problems and could not continue his intensive work. Wu was anxious after learning the news and wanted to take care of Bei Xiye for the first time. However, he was strongly opposed by his parents. Although he didn't want to "ground" Wu, he was almost the same, but Wu still strongly urged his parents to finally have no way to stop him and had to agree to his daughter's request.
In the process of taking care of Bei Xiye, Bei Xiye appreciated Wu Sidan more, and was also moved by Wu Sidan's long-standing feelings for him, and the two gradually fell in love. At that time, although there was no husband and wife, there were already husband and wife. What they lack is the opportunity for others to admit it.
Leave the rest of my life.
Time is coming 1952. After the founding of New China, the Marriage Law was promulgated. There is no limit on the age of marriage in the new legal system. Wu Sidan resolutely chose to register and marry Bei Xiye. This year, she was 28 years old and Bei Xiye was 80 years old.
Although married, their marriage was difficult to be understood by others in the social environment at that time. Wu Sidan's parents threatened to break off the relationship before they got married and prevent Wu Sidan and Bei Xiye from getting married, but this could not be an obstacle to their love and marriage.
In addition to their parents, they have to face more opinions and criticisms from others. "Gossip" has never been the patent of any kind of people in any era. Faced with this situation, they decided to return to Bessie's hometown in France.
1954, Bei Xiye returned to France with Wu Sidan. They reopened a clinic, saved their livelihood and began to lead a normal life. The naturally romantic French believe that age is never an obstacle to love. Even though the age gap between Bei Xiye and Wu Sidan is so big, they have gained a lot of blessings in France, and getting along during this time is the happiest moment for them.
1955, perhaps God felt their love and generously gave them a son, which was a miracle at that time. The birth of children not only added more fun to their lives, but also seemed to make Wu Sidan's later life less lonely.
Good times are always short. 1958, 88-year-old Bei Xiye died of illness, leaving only 34-year-old Wu Sidan and his young son alive. Although there were signs and preparations, Wu was still extremely sad and unable to extricate himself in the face of his lover's death.
Wu Sidan hasn't found a spouse since Bei Xiye died. She was widowed for 55 years and raised her children alone. After her husband died, she didn't lead a negative life. On the contrary, she joined the French Art Association and served as the vice-chairman to continue her artistic work. June 20 13, 89-year-old Wu Sidan died in Xinyubao, Auvigne, ending her wonderful and romantic life.
"Qing may you be born early, and you sigh that you are born late. If there is an afterlife, I will be with you every day. " This poem aptly describes the love between Wu Sidan and Bei Xiye. Wu Sidan has been practicing the phrase "marry someone I really love" all his life. She and Bessie crossed age and nationality, showing the true beauty of love. Thanks for meeting is better than never meeting.