1. Stay calm: avoid unnecessary pressure and trouble caused by the comments of colleagues in the company, and don't get involved. Pay attention to your work and responsibilities and deal with this situation in a professional way.
2. Understanding intention: Try to understand the intention behind the behavior of the female boss. She may think you are a trustworthy employee, like your work performance, or just appreciate your social skills. Clarifying her intentions will help you to deal with this situation better.
3. Appropriate behavior: If the behavior of the female boss causes dissatisfaction or gossip from colleagues, try to be professional and polite. Keep a proper distance and respect when dealing with her, and avoid unnecessary disputes or misunderstandings.
4. Communicate with the female boss: If the situation continues to make you feel uncomfortable or troubled, you can consider communicating directly with the female boss. Express your feelings about the status quo and explain your troubles and worries. Ask her to understand your position and needs and seek ways to understand and solve the problem.
5. Seek support: If you feel that you need to talk to someone or ask for advice, you can share your troubles with trusted colleagues or superiors. They may provide help and support, as well as different opinions and suggestions.
The most important thing is professionalism, courtesy and respect, while protecting your own interests and feelings.